Emotional Hijacking

 
At one point or another some of us have been guilty  
And not necessarily deliberate but with good intention  
Knowing that someone is experiencing loss or sadness  
When we talk about ourselves it takes away the attention  
 
Perhaps we think that talking can be just as reassuring  
When in fact we should shut up and listen carefully  
And if you really empathize you too can be mad or sad  
In fact, cry and mourn along with them respectfully  
 
Unless the griever asks for words of comfort or advice  
Be sensitive to their need and kindly follow through  
A sincere hug can mean “I sympathize” or “I understand”  
Just don’t emotionally hijack them, IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU!  
 
For example:  
Their grandpa passed away, hear what they have to say  
Don’t talk about your grandpa who died years ago  
Your friend’s parent is in the hospital? Just be hospitable  
Say a prayer, send good vibes, or whatever’s apropos  
 
Every relationship is different so use good judgement  
Don’t emotionally hijack by blabbing or gabbing indelibly  
Be sensitive to their cause, be considerate of their loss  
Be diligent of other’s emotions for the sake of decency  
 
Oh and on a side note  
 
If you see a cop kill another black person on the news  
And a friend says “all lives matter” without backtracking  
Give them a (figurative*) kick in the dick or punt in the cunt  
Then tell them “Hey asshole, that’s emotional hijacking!”