The Sir To Come

you'll always be Sir to me ;)

love this masterful and beautiful ink..

with love Crim

Ahhh  Thank you Crim!  You'll always be Lady to me!  Glad you enjoyed!

Agreed with Crim. And you can submit yourself to an uncruel man. I certainly have since my Sir. With man not cruel but firm and warm. If they can accept my pleasure to please, total devotion. A dom can be sculpted as well.....
In ways that jive with his personality. Sculpted by learning her pleasre in it, appreciating it,  not being afraid of it.

But not changing the soul of you Crow. A girl would be crazy to want that.

Great write! Outside look in. Your an interesting man doll. One of a kind.

👽👽👽
Jennifer

I'm just beginning to learn about dominants and submissives.  It's fascinating.  I just used to think in the clichés of "let's play master and servant" but now understand that it's far more complex and potentially fulfilling than that.  It can add depth to a relationship, and apparently a lot of fun, erotic and otherwise.  Thanks Jennifer!  

This is like a noble character, this Sir.

"Curled in the shelter of my shadow "

Is a lovely line and shows depth of being. I like this. There is psychology happening. The pretense of what we "should be" versus " who we be". Great job, Crowl

This would be a "sir" who's respectful and considerate of women even while engaged in a dom / sub relationship.
You're right about the pretense in the sense of finding the right role to satisfy a potential lover.  It might mean going a little out of character or effecting a more profound change, in this case becoming tougher, more confident. The guy here is still trying to figure out what's expected of him and if he can deliver.   Thanks DPW!

Thanks Gabriel!  I've got a heart in me somewhere...  

I think I would prefer a nice sir...but each to each's own eh.:) Good read Crowfly...and I still like the flying crow.

Better nice than vicious.  Thanks Grace!

Stunning lines in this *Sir Crow.. a balanced[uncruel] hand of a Master is a sexy pleasure all its own..
so I think this Helene needs a spanking, and good!

"Or a hand that's firm but never cruel"
&
"Curled in the shelter of my shadow"
~giving you dark poetry sighs fer these lines. gorgeous vibes!

Your open mind & soul bleed deeply from the thoughts portrayed throughout,
& if this is a newer topic for you.. must say-- you are "wingin it' w/ perfection.
further studies on subj matter are gonna bow & arch these ladies into lunette fashioned beggin, surely.
[..once/if fully ensconced. ]

very much enjoy your heartmind thoughts/share here, sweet friend. huggs n awwes
~d

This is a newer topic for me Darksighs, and I'm trying to be careful.  I wrote a couple I deleted because I thought they might be offensive to a few folks here.  I might try some "further studies on subj matter."  Thanks for the encouragement and your sweet comments!

Thanks Taryn.  I'm often confused by how far a Dom should go, where the lines are drawn, if there's any actual cruelty.  I think it's role playing without intent to inflict harm.  I would hope for an underlying tenderness and generosity whatever the scenario, and respect beneath the fantasy.  I try to imagine myself in the role of Dom and wonder if I would be perceived as being confident or tough enough to pull it off.  I know I've got a lot to learn.

A gentle lover is revered as a precious gem, and also, receiving a Dom lover is sometimes better left as a fantasy. Having a shadow to comfort and protect you is always good. Much enjoyed this poem. - blue angel

Thank you Blue Angel!  I agree.  It's better to have a gentle lover, one who pays attention to your needs.  Indulging in some kind of power play is questionable, particularly in the wrong hands.

Kind of see the title as a foreshadowing that she may yet get here wish... And then some.  There are so many points in a relationship that prove to be pivotal...this certainly seems to focus on one of those.   Love the feeling we're just getting to the good part, even as we've come to the last line.  Nicely written.

Michael

i'm not one for D/s, preferring a s&m dynamic with an s-type, but this speaks to me & the parts of me that crave a decent DD/lg dynmic, crowman... most of the ladies above are spot on with their "firm but fair" analysis... there are aspects of guidance & nurturing few people consider, thinking it's all kinkyfuckery
loved this piece. truly
xoxox

This is pretty new to me, but I'm fascinated.  Right now I'm basically observing and wondering.  There's a lot more than kinkiness to the various possibilities, and I'm hoping to be educated.  Thanks Katja!