Love At First Sight?
I don't, I believe it is impossible to fall in love with someone right at first sight.
I think you should really get to know someone before you fall in love since it wouldn't be the wisest thing to do when trying to start a relationship and besides if you just fell in love with them by looking at them you are pretty much setting yourself up for failure. I've never fallen in love at first sight I've always gotten to know a person first before falling in love.
I think you should really get to know someone before you fall in love since it wouldn't be the wisest thing to do when trying to start a relationship and besides if you just fell in love with them by looking at them you are pretty much setting yourself up for failure. I've never fallen in love at first sight I've always gotten to know a person first before falling in love.
i felt my heartbeat behind my eyes
i forgot to breathe and hold inside
all things i never tell
i forgot to be cool and certainly forgot to lie
seeing her have fun was not fun
she made me laugh,
like a bad comedian with a shotgun
but this wasn't the first time i saw her..
it was the first time i saw her eyes in
the daylight, i couldn't make like i
didn't see her, i wanted to run
but something like gravity never even let me once
like a moth to blue light,
like a candle to moonlight,
her smile was too bright,
this feeling was too nice.
two kites, tangled in an electrical storm,
stars sparkle like spangles
from the fire they were thrown.
and we toss and turn in several words
tangled in each other's strings
the white walls of this stranger's home
all together sing...
and the storm rages on
and the swarm races on
and the sword made in her gaze
blazes, furiously drawn
born mercilessly flawed
she's blowing bubbles
in the concrete of my walls..
I'm curiously drawn
i work against the current
but the water is too strong
she's makin fools of everyone
and all of us can see it,
i am subdivided and supplanted;
conquered by the demons
i is we and us is i,
undoing is her grace
my mind is in a deadly pool
thats swirling toward the drain
she takes a step real close to me
i try to seem okay
she flashes giant eyes like burning
stones in heaven's gates
i try to look away by I am
snatched up by my throat,
my breath is short and so is time
my heart beats hard and slow
i can no longer hold myself
she is the raging tide,
i consent to my own murder
to consent is to comply..
our eyes are finally shut and
our lips become the target
i reached for both her cheeks
and made myself a brand new harness
we finally catch each other and the fireworks begin
i never knew that kiss would lead me
a death inside my skin...
i forgot to breathe and hold inside
all things i never tell
i forgot to be cool and certainly forgot to lie
seeing her have fun was not fun
she made me laugh,
like a bad comedian with a shotgun
but this wasn't the first time i saw her..
it was the first time i saw her eyes in
the daylight, i couldn't make like i
didn't see her, i wanted to run
but something like gravity never even let me once
like a moth to blue light,
like a candle to moonlight,
her smile was too bright,
this feeling was too nice.
two kites, tangled in an electrical storm,
stars sparkle like spangles
from the fire they were thrown.
and we toss and turn in several words
tangled in each other's strings
the white walls of this stranger's home
all together sing...
and the storm rages on
and the swarm races on
and the sword made in her gaze
blazes, furiously drawn
born mercilessly flawed
she's blowing bubbles
in the concrete of my walls..
I'm curiously drawn
i work against the current
but the water is too strong
she's makin fools of everyone
and all of us can see it,
i am subdivided and supplanted;
conquered by the demons
i is we and us is i,
undoing is her grace
my mind is in a deadly pool
thats swirling toward the drain
she takes a step real close to me
i try to seem okay
she flashes giant eyes like burning
stones in heaven's gates
i try to look away by I am
snatched up by my throat,
my breath is short and so is time
my heart beats hard and slow
i can no longer hold myself
she is the raging tide,
i consent to my own murder
to consent is to comply..
our eyes are finally shut and
our lips become the target
i reached for both her cheeks
and made myself a brand new harness
we finally catch each other and the fireworks begin
i never knew that kiss would lead me
a death inside my skin...
It depends how you define 'love' as the word is much defined and sometimes misunderstood. What is confused with love but not really is - a strong sex drive, a hunger for approval, a fear of being unwanted or lonely. I have been ATTRACTED at first sight but despite its intensity I took it very slowly (I gave up when it transpired she was already spoken for but we still have friendly chats on occasion.)
Love in first site does exist.
There are different levels of attraction though:
Lust
You can feel this attraction for anyone really, rather quick too. It could even be someone you truly dislike or "hate". It's apart of the instinctual aspect. It's in your blood, hard wired in your mind to find someone attractive. Her breast are so round and touchable, he's butt is so neatly slim.
Platonic
This type of attraction is mostly associated with friends or family. You care about the person's health and possibly connect with the on an emotional level. You don't necessarily feel lust for them but just care about them. You can feel this way for either sex.
The "Love"
A combination of both emotional and physical attraction. You want to make babies and live a life with this person. Or just.. live your life with them! You and this person can have a very in depth emotional bond, greater then platonic. You treat this person as if you'll treat yourself. They mean as much to you as much as you value yourself. You cannot feel this way for more then one person, as said so many freaking times; love is a narrow path.
Can you feel The "Love" for someone you just met? Yes of course, your subconscious already filled out the list for you.
There are different levels of attraction though:
Lust
You can feel this attraction for anyone really, rather quick too. It could even be someone you truly dislike or "hate". It's apart of the instinctual aspect. It's in your blood, hard wired in your mind to find someone attractive. Her breast are so round and touchable, he's butt is so neatly slim.
Platonic
This type of attraction is mostly associated with friends or family. You care about the person's health and possibly connect with the on an emotional level. You don't necessarily feel lust for them but just care about them. You can feel this way for either sex.
The "Love"
A combination of both emotional and physical attraction. You want to make babies and live a life with this person. Or just.. live your life with them! You and this person can have a very in depth emotional bond, greater then platonic. You treat this person as if you'll treat yourself. They mean as much to you as much as you value yourself. You cannot feel this way for more then one person, as said so many freaking times; love is a narrow path.
Can you feel The "Love" for someone you just met? Yes of course, your subconscious already filled out the list for you.
rainbowoni said:Love in first site does exist.
There are different levels of attraction though:
Lust
You can feel this attraction for anyone really, rather quick too. It could even be someone you truly dislike or "hate". It's apart of the instinctual aspect. It's in your blood, hard wired in your mind to find someone attractive. Her breast are so round and touchable, he's butt is so neatly slim.
Platonic
This type of attraction is mostly associated with friends or family. You care about the person's health and possibly connect with the on an emotional level. You don't necessarily feel lust for them but just care about them. You can feel this way for either sex.
The "Love"
A combination of both emotional and physical attraction. You want to make babies and live a life with this person. Or just.. live your life with them! You and this person can have a very in depth emotional bond, greater then platonic. You treat this person as if you'll treat yourself. They mean as much to you as much as you value yourself. You cannot feel this way for more then one person, as said so many freaking times; love is a narrow path.
Can you feel The "Love" for someone you just met? Yes of course, your subconscious already filled out the list for you.
I think you have summed it up well.
There are different levels of attraction though:
Lust
You can feel this attraction for anyone really, rather quick too. It could even be someone you truly dislike or "hate". It's apart of the instinctual aspect. It's in your blood, hard wired in your mind to find someone attractive. Her breast are so round and touchable, he's butt is so neatly slim.
Platonic
This type of attraction is mostly associated with friends or family. You care about the person's health and possibly connect with the on an emotional level. You don't necessarily feel lust for them but just care about them. You can feel this way for either sex.
The "Love"
A combination of both emotional and physical attraction. You want to make babies and live a life with this person. Or just.. live your life with them! You and this person can have a very in depth emotional bond, greater then platonic. You treat this person as if you'll treat yourself. They mean as much to you as much as you value yourself. You cannot feel this way for more then one person, as said so many freaking times; love is a narrow path.
Can you feel The "Love" for someone you just met? Yes of course, your subconscious already filled out the list for you.
I think you have summed it up well.
There's a difference between love and attraction. I suppose it can be difficult to differentiate between them. We have to learn to love, it's not an instant thing; some people love after days, others might take years to allow themselves exposure to that kind of vulnerability.
