The Confidence of Affection

The love found within intimacy can be such a key piece of healing. Even the healing of self-love. Without self intimacy (not that physical kind, but the self intimacy of the interior) true healing is impossible. The truth within a space of true co-equal intimacy provides the greatest of repair to pieces within those perspectives that are Love.

Within the provision of Intimacy generally generally there is requirement of abundance of space of one kind or another, as well. To my comment into even further of a mundane track, consider the intimacies That exist within successfully nurturing Parent of child relationships.

The intimacies in child raising which are necessary to to provide and to give (and as well, to teach) love, and gentleness and empathy, lessons passed parents and the ones they raise into this world. Parent–Child relationships which lack truth in gentle intimacy are problematic, both in their outcomes for the individual growing up and for the making of "tomorrow's" (at whatever given point in time a cohort of children are being raised) greater society at large. The further, younger generation LDS, Gen-X to Gen millennial to GenY to Genz— we are all of the same Kidz generation it seems, Driving upward and onward and better for more of this good parenting skills stuff. In my conceptional reckoning of recent history There was a great split a great break after the parenting of the children group of children and parents who were born or who were infants of the generation which was grown up during World War II.l At least in America the great US of A I can't speak for anywhere else and I only say great because of its my own home country and I love it Where I am and where I am from and so if I love it I am allowed to say it just because and so I say it like that Pardon me this comment has gone way too long Amen. Thanks for posting your poem

[Wonderful poem! I quickens my heart, because I have a date this afternoon at noon! My fingers are in hope mudra (metaphorically my fingers are crossed) 1 million times on this morning, so this is a blessed and glorious poem from my eyes to fall upon as second in the list below Sawyers.]

Thank you so much for your comment. You open up a very important pathway. Parenting.

I'm also on Instagram and there is a tidal wave of counselors and coaches t as long about attachment theory and how so very many of our adult problems are projections from childhood.

Your comment is very appreciated.

For me, it's having a mutually earned level of trust between partners; building and solidifying intimacy to the point where real honest to goodness affection is all there is.....

Finding that connective spark and a willingness to share the deepest parts of yourself, is my continued hope.

Lovely poeting, RT
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Earned....an interesting word.

In mathematics, the bottomline is that there is always a leap of faith.

A= A is 40 chalkboards of very subtle equations and then....a leap.

Learning a language and then the use of it in public....a leap.

Trust is a marked trail and taking it.

Can someone ever have done enough?

We just wing it.

it's obvious that trust is an issue for me, I make no bones.... I mean, who doesn't have some version of trust issues somewhere in their baggage?!? I know it's a hurdle for me, so I tend to face it head on. Like you said, no wasted time, if it can be helped.

I like to think I'm getting better with having faith and letting go of fear. I constantly strive to better myself there

Spontaneity, winging it, being carefree.... Were once all things I embraced with fervor and zeal,
only to experience that not working out for me very well, in the end. Yet, I welcome and ardently persevere, hoping to unburden myself with ghosts of the past; burying what needs burying and focusing on how to be more easy-going

...... I'm a work in progress... aren't we all... ;)
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good morning dearest RT this is beautiful
I have very few friends
I have a female witch who I see everyday
and a poet confidante who has been with me
since 2011 and proven himself...

I am a very guarded person
I am friendly to people
but they get the world version of me
until proven trustworthy...

my husband is my best friend
but we don't share interests really
I love him and he understands this site
provides mental stimulation of like interests...

I've always cared for you RT
this is deeply insightful...

To have a friend....ahhhh.

There are so many kinds of relationships....and no one can provide everything....

I feel the same...thanks for years of sharing.

you know it's funny I've been here a long time and failed to see things I'm finally seeing the doors are opening for me thank you RT for the love...

I like this positivity

Thank you....it feels good to just say how I feel and just be listened to.