A SPADE AN SPADE

What is it with this corrupt systematic system that we have within the court system when it concerns, the well being of a child when both parents cant seem to see to eye to eye fighting over a child. For I am speaking from my own experience of having to deal with the court system, that continues to denie a father the same equal rights, as they give to the mother to be heard and seen concerning the well being of the child. For even though they the parents might not see eye to eye you would think that the court system would be fair in the eyes of the law, but some of us mens have found that not to be the case at all for you can pay your child support on time, and you can provide the child with your time and love and energy. But when it comes to your visitation rights due the mother denieing you that right by order of the same court, who mostly agrees with the mothers right to denie you that same right cause most womens, become bitter making you and the child pay the biggest price of separation of life. For there own personal reasons for were is the right in the law that makes there actions non accountability for there actions, but yet if you miss one payment as a real man you sometimes go to jail or worse cause you to lose your job to make your bread and butter to continue to do your part as a father. I am not talking about the dead beat fathers who would quit a job and not pay nothing, I am talking about the real mens that still want to be apart of there childs life in every way possible so dont get it twisted for I believe in calling a spade an spade at face value on both parts of the vortex.