let's talk about sexual activities

     
     
    to be honest-I've always hated the concept of "cat & mouse"- but everyone has their subjective thoughts that get them aroused;      
     
     there's something "turn on-ish") about a woman that's bold- with a I don't give a .... approach; no chase- just straight face to face;      
     
   not every person enjoys the process of "the chase"- it's understandable but- it's just not everyone's taste....      
     
  personally- I wish there wasn't so much of a "breaking the ice, stage"- life would be so much more gratifying if two people just have a clear point that's made....      
     
   both responsible parties like what they see- they verbalize- along with the gaze; both involved should as least want to equally sexually engage....to be insync, and on the same page....      
     
  where's the "fun" in a partner who just wants to lay.... engage! hence why the body is admire as much as the face- looking for someone who potentially can actively play....      
     
 we've been programmed most of our lives- that everything is an exchange of give and take.... sure patience goes a long way-on both ends-especially when and even after the ice breaks-      
     
 and when it does- just maybe- one's down for at least or limited to an extended oral and foreplay(especially to play it safe)....      
     
 can you imagine how some "backed up" men(referring to myself especially) who wear their best "poker face "(no fun at all)- myself personally- have been way in the back-shaking my head-like "what the hell"- with my palm in my face....