The Emotional Key

The Emotional Key

I think that
this is the key
about this trait
of emotional discipline,

which creates assertiveness,
which creates respect
which is needed
for trust
in order
to let her guard down.

The attractiveness
is a Self-Awareness
that is honest
and realistic.

No
dramatics.

There's no reason
to have to force
anyone
to agree
with the truth.

Life
does that.

And we observe it
as it does.

Wise people
observe the full context,
withhold any condemnation
or judgement,
weigh out the facts,
and allow the process
to point out
the problems.

And we deal
with that one thing
at a time.

And what
she is observing
is your ability
not to lose your mind
with the number
of situations
she presents
as almost
diametrically opposed
to everything
you stand for
just so
she can observe
your prowess
in negotiation
and keeping boundaries.  

That way,
whatever
side of her
gets up
in the morning

she won't
have to fear
you'll abandon her
reflecting
on your time
with villager
personality
No. 93a.