Love Is Giving!

I said young man
 "why are you eating that fish."
The young man said
"Because I love fish"
I say
"Oh, you love the fish, that's why you took it out of the water and killed it and boiled it."
I also said
" Don't tell me you love the fish you love yourself and because the fish taste so good to you. Therefore, you took it out of the water; and killed it and boiled it. "

So much of what is love, is fish love. And so, young couple Falls and love. Young man and woman fall in love, what does that mean? that mean that he saw something in this woman someone who he felt good provide him with physical and emotional needs and she thought this man is somebody she feels that she can write a book about him all about love about him,  that was love, but each of them are looking out for their for themselves and their own personal needs. Its not love for the other. The other person becomes a vehicle for their gratification. Too much of what is called love, is fish love.  

Internal love is not on what I'm going to get, but I'm going to give. I had it intellectual conversation with his homeless man. And he said to me " the people make a serious mistake and thinking that you give to those who you love, and the answer, the real answer is, you love those to whom you give." He mad a valid point!  Because if I give something to you, I've invested myself in you. Since self love is a given, everybody loves themselves, now that part of me as become in you, but there's a part of me in you that I love. So true is a love of giving, not a love of receiving.