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Broken
Today
I received
A call
From
The school nurse
Telling me
My son
Was in the health office
Having fallen after recess
(in some fluke of errant shoe strap)
Upon his wrist on the stairs
She'd iced it
And sent him back
To his kindergarten classroom
Twice
(his wise teacher convinced it was a fracture kept sending him right back)
Still
He was in significant pain
So the nurse (finally) thought she'd
Better call me in to see
Said it appeared he was in kind of a lot of pain
Good thing she called me
Turns out
Simple fracture
And
Greenstick fracture
One bone - radius - broken clean through
Other bone - ulna - with that hairline break
I've never been so grateful
In my life entire
For the effect of ibuprofen
On wee ones
It brought such blessed relief to my little guy
Who in the stoic manner small children oft-times have
Informed me that his arm was broken
When I arrived to get him
I told him we were going to the doctor so she could see and then probably also for an x-ray
He said he'd rather just go on home to bed
(letting me know things were rather serious for bedtime is more a war zone)
He also anxiously queried regarding the likelihood of shots
I told him while I didn't know for certain, I was pretty sure shots weren't part of the equation
He accepted this and I assured him we could ask that question first when we reached the doctor's office
'Twas a brutal day outside here in the Midwest, hot and humid, the heat index gave us 105 pushing 190 (that's what it felt like anyway)
I'd brought ice and water in the car from home knowing we'd be needing it especially with all the trekking we'd be doing: school, doctor's office, radiology, doctor's office, pharmacy...
I was right too.
That trip to the doctor's office from the school? Pure hell it was. No air conditioning in my car. Road construction in our path. Every bump in the road brought agonized cries from my son's wee mouth.
I finally thought to sing. Every silly song I could think of came pouring from my voice, soothing to my son they were, and for that boon, I thank Deity. They worked.
It wasn't 'til we'd reached the doctor's office and been there for a bit that the ibuprofen kicked in at last - takes a good half hour for that stuff to work and we were moving pretty fast.
I don't know if I'll finish this
It's been a difficult day
I will say this much more for now:
On Monday, extremely early, we'll be heading to the orthopedist for more evaluation and follow-up.
We'll see what the future holds. Thank you for your patience with me as I work through my day. I had to write, apparently; I couldn't rest otherwise. I hope I'll be able to do so now.
I received
A call
From
The school nurse
Telling me
My son
Was in the health office
Having fallen after recess
(in some fluke of errant shoe strap)
Upon his wrist on the stairs
She'd iced it
And sent him back
To his kindergarten classroom
Twice
(his wise teacher convinced it was a fracture kept sending him right back)
Still
He was in significant pain
So the nurse (finally) thought she'd
Better call me in to see
Said it appeared he was in kind of a lot of pain
Good thing she called me
Turns out
Simple fracture
And
Greenstick fracture
One bone - radius - broken clean through
Other bone - ulna - with that hairline break
I've never been so grateful
In my life entire
For the effect of ibuprofen
On wee ones
It brought such blessed relief to my little guy
Who in the stoic manner small children oft-times have
Informed me that his arm was broken
When I arrived to get him
I told him we were going to the doctor so she could see and then probably also for an x-ray
He said he'd rather just go on home to bed
(letting me know things were rather serious for bedtime is more a war zone)
He also anxiously queried regarding the likelihood of shots
I told him while I didn't know for certain, I was pretty sure shots weren't part of the equation
He accepted this and I assured him we could ask that question first when we reached the doctor's office
'Twas a brutal day outside here in the Midwest, hot and humid, the heat index gave us 105 pushing 190 (that's what it felt like anyway)
I'd brought ice and water in the car from home knowing we'd be needing it especially with all the trekking we'd be doing: school, doctor's office, radiology, doctor's office, pharmacy...
I was right too.
That trip to the doctor's office from the school? Pure hell it was. No air conditioning in my car. Road construction in our path. Every bump in the road brought agonized cries from my son's wee mouth.
I finally thought to sing. Every silly song I could think of came pouring from my voice, soothing to my son they were, and for that boon, I thank Deity. They worked.
It wasn't 'til we'd reached the doctor's office and been there for a bit that the ibuprofen kicked in at last - takes a good half hour for that stuff to work and we were moving pretty fast.
I don't know if I'll finish this
It's been a difficult day
I will say this much more for now:
On Monday, extremely early, we'll be heading to the orthopedist for more evaluation and follow-up.
We'll see what the future holds. Thank you for your patience with me as I work through my day. I had to write, apparently; I couldn't rest otherwise. I hope I'll be able to do so now.
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23rd Aug 2014 2:12pm
Re: Broken
23rd Aug 2014 8:25am
He's gonna remember those songs and the loving care you gave to him. He'll have some killer stories to tell back at school "yet all shall be forgot, But he'll remember with advantages What feats he did that day" Henry V, Shakespeare :)
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23rd Aug 2014 2:17pm
Thank you so much, Gahddess_Worship, luv :-*!
You bring solace to my soul for I've been sore beset internally...
He, on the other hand, is playing cheerfully now... :-p
You bring solace to my soul for I've been sore beset internally...
He, on the other hand, is playing cheerfully now... :-p
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Of course he is. This was, for him an adventure...a rite of passage :)
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Anonymous
23rd Aug 2014 8:46am
Good stuff Savaja, although sad! Quite the summation of an exhausting day, but as said above me, he'll remember the day well... Sounds like you handled it perfectly
When I was about 8, 9 or 10... On a family bike ride... I flew off my bike and landed chin first... my chin bone was visible.... My dad took off his shirt to stifle the blood flow... Was quite the journey to the hospital where I got stitched up. I actually remember that day quite fondly... Lot of love was shown to me
When I was about 8, 9 or 10... On a family bike ride... I flew off my bike and landed chin first... my chin bone was visible.... My dad took off his shirt to stifle the blood flow... Was quite the journey to the hospital where I got stitched up. I actually remember that day quite fondly... Lot of love was shown to me
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23rd Aug 2014 2:36pm
Ahhh, SugarSkull, luv :-* ~
Thank you so very much! I'll take your kudos even if I've doubts myself for I've need of 'em, luv. :-*
I hope he remembers my love as well and fondly... :-*
Thank you so very much! I'll take your kudos even if I've doubts myself for I've need of 'em, luv. :-*
I hope he remembers my love as well and fondly... :-*
Re: Broken
23rd Aug 2014 11:46am
School nurse should be fired and you should sue.
This kind of neglect on tbe part of school officials is sickening. Wise teacher indeed.
This kind of neglect on tbe part of school officials is sickening. Wise teacher indeed.
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re: Re: Broken
23rd Aug 2014 3:38pm
Ahhh, Granite, luv :-* ~
I had not quite made it so far in my ruminating, but I have been trying to wrap my mind around the entirety of this thing.
I feel as though I have not quite explored the fullness of my feelings surrounding the nurse and her actions or lack thereof. I have begun to consider the situation carefully for it is the beginning of the school year and, knowing my tsunami of a son, it is likely this will not be his final visit to that particular office I must concede so I have strong concerns indeed (and that is mild language for what I am currently feeling :-p)...
Thank you for your insightful action-oriented wisdom, luv :-*. I am considering your words with great care...
I had not quite made it so far in my ruminating, but I have been trying to wrap my mind around the entirety of this thing.
I feel as though I have not quite explored the fullness of my feelings surrounding the nurse and her actions or lack thereof. I have begun to consider the situation carefully for it is the beginning of the school year and, knowing my tsunami of a son, it is likely this will not be his final visit to that particular office I must concede so I have strong concerns indeed (and that is mild language for what I am currently feeling :-p)...
Thank you for your insightful action-oriented wisdom, luv :-*. I am considering your words with great care...
Re: Broken
23rd Aug 2014 12:13pm
My prayers and thoughts are go out to your son? because you used pronoun she and he at the same. However I understand that you went through tough time. Cheer up and get well soon!
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Romanticguy, luv :-* ~
I confess myself bemused and confused by your concerns... I have not referred to my son as other than he, luv... :-p
Not to worry, no simultaneous use of pronouns has occurred, but thank you for your concerns and well wishes nonetheless. :-*
I confess myself bemused and confused by your concerns... I have not referred to my son as other than he, luv... :-p
Not to worry, no simultaneous use of pronouns has occurred, but thank you for your concerns and well wishes nonetheless. :-*
Re: Broken
23rd Aug 2014 12:21pm
Hope your son will be fine soon. He will remember - his loving mom and her songs first, only second the pain. Know what it is like, facing a child in pain. What they need most then is parential love. That you gave him :-).
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Thank you so much, Chiyo, luv :-*!
Your words mean much to me: of what he will remember and what needs he had that you perceive I filled.
It's such a helpless feeling at the time that, though you do your best, it helps to have others validate...
Thank you, luv. :-*
Your words mean much to me: of what he will remember and what needs he had that you perceive I filled.
It's such a helpless feeling at the time that, though you do your best, it helps to have others validate...
Thank you, luv. :-*
Re: Broken
23rd Aug 2014 12:40pm
Poor little one, what a day. He will remember the sound of your voice singing to him, the reassurances you gave him. Your being confident, loving and in control. Thank goodness for the "wise teacher!!" I can't imagine what that nurse was thinking, but I'd find out. I hope he heals quickly from the entire experience. :)
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23rd Aug 2014 5:30pm
Thank you so much, jemac, luv :-*!
I hope he does remember only the positives of yesterday: how I was, how his wonderful teacher was, how his doctor was...
Yes, thank goodness for his incredibly wonderful and wise teacher! That woman is, indeed, a gem. I think she was incredibly frustrated with the nurse and I also think it was because of that teacher that the nurse finally called me. You know, late in the afternoon, after school was out for the day, my son's teacher called me to find out how he was doing. She knew it was a fracture, kept reiterating that, and glad I am for her persistence yesterday.
I will be investigating the nurse's reasoning...
Thank goodness, children are resilient. He's been cadging ice cream cones from me... :-D
I hope he does remember only the positives of yesterday: how I was, how his wonderful teacher was, how his doctor was...
Yes, thank goodness for his incredibly wonderful and wise teacher! That woman is, indeed, a gem. I think she was incredibly frustrated with the nurse and I also think it was because of that teacher that the nurse finally called me. You know, late in the afternoon, after school was out for the day, my son's teacher called me to find out how he was doing. She knew it was a fracture, kept reiterating that, and glad I am for her persistence yesterday.
I will be investigating the nurse's reasoning...
Thank goodness, children are resilient. He's been cadging ice cream cones from me... :-D
Re: Broken
23rd Aug 2014 1:31pm
I've seen this situation first hand and I'm always amazed how school nurses (the bad ones) first and last treatment is an ice pack.
Having broken a bone or two at around his age - and dislocating a shoulder at 7 - I can tell you as boys we wear that stuff like a badge of honor ... It's more worrisome on you moms.
You've penned a personal moment in a universal manner Sis ... Bravo!
Having broken a bone or two at around his age - and dislocating a shoulder at 7 - I can tell you as boys we wear that stuff like a badge of honor ... It's more worrisome on you moms.
You've penned a personal moment in a universal manner Sis ... Bravo!
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23rd Aug 2014 6:09pm
Yeah, LobodeSanPedro, luv :-* ~
It appears the school nurse was just interested in sending him back to class as soon as she could.
Well, I hope it's a badge of honor he doesn't feel compelled to repost. Yes, 'tis a worrisome thing... :-p
Thank you, luv. Thank you, my brother. :-*
It appears the school nurse was just interested in sending him back to class as soon as she could.
Well, I hope it's a badge of honor he doesn't feel compelled to repost. Yes, 'tis a worrisome thing... :-p
Thank you, luv. Thank you, my brother. :-*
Re: Broken
23rd Aug 2014 2:29pm
I just have to say this: what the Hell? I have had plenty of runs with school nurses in my life - but even to a layman, how do you not see a compound fracture? That is an open wound. Midwest, hot and humid; you said it sister! Anyway - I'm wishing you and your son all the best, Savaja. Good vibes are coming your way - try not to worry(impossible), but he's safe now with his mamma... Namaste Savaja..
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23rd Aug 2014 6:23pm
Pishashee, luv :-* ~
You've taught me an invaluable lesson here: always check my facts. I've been saying compound fracture to describe multiple breaks, but that is not accurate whatsoever, something I now know unequivocally.
Yes, if there'd been an open wound with bone protruding and that woman would have behaved in the manner she did, it would have been open warfare. It was not, thankfully, yet things are still unsettled. I believe his teacher is disturbed enough by the events of the day that she spoke with the principal and assistant principal about her perspective of the nurse's actions.
Yesterday was a scorcher, eh? :-p We were fryin'.
Thank you for the good vibes, luv; you're right about the worry ;-p but he is with me that's as safe as it gets. :-D
Thank you so very much, luv. :-*
You've taught me an invaluable lesson here: always check my facts. I've been saying compound fracture to describe multiple breaks, but that is not accurate whatsoever, something I now know unequivocally.
Yes, if there'd been an open wound with bone protruding and that woman would have behaved in the manner she did, it would have been open warfare. It was not, thankfully, yet things are still unsettled. I believe his teacher is disturbed enough by the events of the day that she spoke with the principal and assistant principal about her perspective of the nurse's actions.
Yesterday was a scorcher, eh? :-p We were fryin'.
Thank you for the good vibes, luv; you're right about the worry ;-p but he is with me that's as safe as it gets. :-D
Thank you so very much, luv. :-*
Re: Broken
23rd Aug 2014 3:03pm
Your son will keep this day in his memory for the caring he got from his mom. I remember all the times my mom was there in times of crisis and in spite of the pain it will become a cherished and happy memory, the further bonding that happens as children grow and realize that no matter how independent we think we are and want to be, there is a deep seeded need that a child never loses for their mom no matter how old we get.
No shots mommy. No shots...
:)
JJ
No shots mommy. No shots...
:)
JJ
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23rd Aug 2014 7:13pm
Thank you very much, Poetryman, luv :-*!
I hope he always carries my love inside him because he'll always have it. :-*
No shots, indeed. :-D. I was right about that too! There weren't any, much to his intense relief.
Moms to the rescue! :-D
I hope he always carries my love inside him because he'll always have it. :-*
No shots, indeed. :-D. I was right about that too! There weren't any, much to his intense relief.
Moms to the rescue! :-D
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23rd Aug 2014 7:16pm
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24th Aug 2014 9:37pm
Poor judgment aside, here's wishing him
a full, speedy recovery.
He will, most likely, be adorned with a plaster
canvas for all to sign and share their artwork.
Odds are, in six weeks he will be just dandy.
It's Vegas, and I'm wagering all will be well. :)
Try not to worry, Savaja. Boys will be boys ...
a full, speedy recovery.
He will, most likely, be adorned with a plaster
canvas for all to sign and share their artwork.
Odds are, in six weeks he will be just dandy.
It's Vegas, and I'm wagering all will be well. :)
Try not to worry, Savaja. Boys will be boys ...
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Thank you very much, VegasPoet, luv :-*!
All right, luv, I'll go with those odds of yours and I'll accept that wager you're making. :-D I suspect you're correct...
As for boys being boys and trying not to worry, you DO know that boys being boys may well BE a cause for worry. Of course, I do understand worrying is rather a futile and fruitless waste of resources. It does, however, seem to be a challenge for me to discontinue... :-p
Thank you, luv. :-*
All right, luv, I'll go with those odds of yours and I'll accept that wager you're making. :-D I suspect you're correct...
As for boys being boys and trying not to worry, you DO know that boys being boys may well BE a cause for worry. Of course, I do understand worrying is rather a futile and fruitless waste of resources. It does, however, seem to be a challenge for me to discontinue... :-p
Thank you, luv. :-*
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27th Aug 2014 1:39am
Yes, Savaja, I "DO know ....." :)
My "boy" is now three inches taller than I, mid twenties and recently married. This, after a broken wrist at age nine; broken ankle at age twelve; five to fourteen stitches on four separate occasions; and more scrapes, lumps, bumps and contusions than I can remember.
Like father, like son. :) I DO know.
It may be best stated as, "Try not to worry too much." :)
All my best for a speedy recovery.
My "boy" is now three inches taller than I, mid twenties and recently married. This, after a broken wrist at age nine; broken ankle at age twelve; five to fourteen stitches on four separate occasions; and more scrapes, lumps, bumps and contusions than I can remember.
Like father, like son. :) I DO know.
It may be best stated as, "Try not to worry too much." :)
All my best for a speedy recovery.
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27th Aug 2014 1:56am
Good. Lord. Man.
Perhaps there is some bliss in ignorance... :-p
Actually, thank you for the warning, luv. Forearmed and all that rot, eh? :-D
Okay, I'm going to have to incorporate some sort of mantra here: I'll not worry. I'll not worry much. I'll not worry too much... :-*
Heh. Whatever. Life is full of adventure. I better gear up, eh? :-p
Perhaps there is some bliss in ignorance... :-p
Actually, thank you for the warning, luv. Forearmed and all that rot, eh? :-D
Okay, I'm going to have to incorporate some sort of mantra here: I'll not worry. I'll not worry much. I'll not worry too much... :-*
Heh. Whatever. Life is full of adventure. I better gear up, eh? :-p
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27th Aug 2014 2:21am