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Character assassination and sexual harassment
--- I have NEVER said an improper word to any one [women or man] on this site ---
the following message chain is point black accusing me WITHOUT evidence of driving women from this site. I am now requesting all who read this post to link hard evidence of improper behavior [emails, replies, messages] that corroborates the vile accusations presented here. I have already begun transitioning to other poetry sites because of lost friends and closed doors on dup since I took sides in a war between two poetesses. Enough is enough, I am demanding evidence.
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(PxxtWarrior) (Your recent piece about this site and the people on it overlooks the fact that the site sucks/ is a "social" site, not a poetry site and that there are less than 20 "real" poets here. (Yes, I DO have the credentials to critique poetry.)
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Please explain. I don't know you or your 'qualifications', the mere fact of you pre-defending your opinion is a bit of a red flag but I seriously have no idea what you're talking about. So, please explain.
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(PxxtWarrior) The piece I refrred to is your November 10th piece, "Before it all went to hell..."
There has been a rash of women leaving the site, due to unwanted, repeated sexual harassment; I think that's despicable.
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Your reading comprehension needs work. Read that post again. No where did I mention Dup BUT I have lost friends and been blocked by being caught in the middle of a war between two poetesses, but I never complained, for over a year I let that character assassination play itself out. Are you really this ignorant of the poison that this war has created. Are you fucking accusing me a harassing women, are you?!. Your implications are petty and vile and you owe me an apology. SHOW me evidence [emails, replies, messages] that substantiate your opinion because if you can't, you need to re-evaluate your moral paradigms.
the following message chain is point black accusing me WITHOUT evidence of driving women from this site. I am now requesting all who read this post to link hard evidence of improper behavior [emails, replies, messages] that corroborates the vile accusations presented here. I have already begun transitioning to other poetry sites because of lost friends and closed doors on dup since I took sides in a war between two poetesses. Enough is enough, I am demanding evidence.
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(PxxtWarrior) (Your recent piece about this site and the people on it overlooks the fact that the site sucks/ is a "social" site, not a poetry site and that there are less than 20 "real" poets here. (Yes, I DO have the credentials to critique poetry.)
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Please explain. I don't know you or your 'qualifications', the mere fact of you pre-defending your opinion is a bit of a red flag but I seriously have no idea what you're talking about. So, please explain.
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(PxxtWarrior) The piece I refrred to is your November 10th piece, "Before it all went to hell..."
There has been a rash of women leaving the site, due to unwanted, repeated sexual harassment; I think that's despicable.
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Your reading comprehension needs work. Read that post again. No where did I mention Dup BUT I have lost friends and been blocked by being caught in the middle of a war between two poetesses, but I never complained, for over a year I let that character assassination play itself out. Are you really this ignorant of the poison that this war has created. Are you fucking accusing me a harassing women, are you?!. Your implications are petty and vile and you owe me an apology. SHOW me evidence [emails, replies, messages] that substantiate your opinion because if you can't, you need to re-evaluate your moral paradigms.
Published 17th Nov 2022
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Anonymous
17th Nov 2022 5:54pm
Hey Ryszard, pssst, they're either irrationally talking off their rocker, or they're trolling you, or both. You're taking offense and letting someone else drive you to distraction when you have your own shot to take care of that's nothing to do with them, and to keep going with the "conversation" such as it (and this piece too) are, is to invite that (and them) to keep going into your mind-life. It's poisonous of them! You deserve better of yourself than let it get to you.
Full of love for you Brother ♥️🌹🧎♀️
Full of love for you Brother ♥️🌹🧎♀️
I agree with with all my heart. I never said a word until today with these implications. I know who started them and I know why but this implication is so vile that I couldn't stay silent any longer. The slurs and innuendo were never said to my face and so I never replied to a faceless enemy. Well, like I said, I know who originated them but I refused to call them out or harm them in any way but these poisonous rumors need to stop or I will need to leave. I stayed quite for over a year but then new friendships would suddenly go quite and stop all interactions, There have been many such knives that drew blood. So you see, the person responsible never stopped inflicting pain by spreading rumors of stalking and harassments. I hope you see how subtly evil this was with just a couple of words spoken like "Hey xxxx, I just wanted to give you a heads up about so and so's history of inappropriate behavior. I can't really talk about and I'm not telling you what to do but it made me really uncomfortable until I blocked him". How can anyone fight shit like this [and by the way it was used almost verbatim with me against another poet], so I do not feel paranoid in saying these rumors are real.
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It turns out the person in question has either deleted or place on hold their account. This is sad since I never gave up on this person but they never again asked for friendship.
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love you double Em-ily
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It turns out the person in question has either deleted or place on hold their account. This is sad since I never gave up on this person but they never again asked for friendship.
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love you double Em-ily
17th Nov 2022 6:39pm
hello dearest poet I respect you deeply
I have been treated with nothing but respect by you
I come here to write i'm not really up on the social end...
keep writing my friend and don't let them get to you
I am basically ignored by most and that's fine with me
I know I'm a good poet and you are too ❤️
I have been treated with nothing but respect by you
I come here to write i'm not really up on the social end...
keep writing my friend and don't let them get to you
I am basically ignored by most and that's fine with me
I know I'm a good poet and you are too ❤️
18th Nov 2022 00:26am
You are more than a good poet, you are a conduit to a world of magic and emotions. You have my deepest thanks for the kindness of your heart felt words. They mean a lot and will carry them with me. Your friend in this life and the next.
18th Nov 2022 00:29am
thank you from my heart dearest poet I always look forward to seeing you about the place...I hope you will stay and not let someone's ill tidings bother your peace of mind 💕
19th Nov 2022 11:52pm
The rest of us know the truth so no need to engage with childish antics, just block and keep moving forward with you head held high !
Peace, be unto you…👑😇🕊️
Peace, be unto you…👑😇🕊️
I'm not quite sure I know your meaning but they seem positive, so thank you if that is how they're meant. However, I must protest about the term 'childish antics', the implied accusations in the post made me feel dirty, made my soul feel dirty and were not something I could not live with. I've lost friends as a by-product over this and I really don't have that many friends to start with. They were important to me and they're gone. These rumors, obviously, developed a life of their own and this is the only way I know how to fight them. Forgive me for these antics but I want to stay, I still have friends here and I want to stay, if I can stop the rumors I will.
20th Nov 2022 11:45am
The childish antics was directed to at the accused who’s dubbed you as someone you’re not !
The audacity of those kind of people is astounding yet disgusting in their blatant attempts to socially isolate you by spinning lies and planting doubt in the minds of people who should know better.
Just breathe, and know that those people are attracting bad karma.
Hope you have a blessed Sunday..🙏🏼
The audacity of those kind of people is astounding yet disgusting in their blatant attempts to socially isolate you by spinning lies and planting doubt in the minds of people who should know better.
Just breathe, and know that those people are attracting bad karma.
Hope you have a blessed Sunday..🙏🏼
20th Nov 2022 4:26pm
You have my heart felt thanks and something more, in this life and the next, I am your friend.
4th Feb 2023 9:14pm
I'm a girl and I get creepy guys talking to me. It's really not that hard to ignore them. Those women probably just want attention. I'd ignore them too. :D
