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Learning By Doing
Sometimes I think it would be nice to strike
His back to show him just how harsh the bite
Can feel when flogger is employed. I like
The idea of him flinching, but not quite
Withdrawing from the bet that he can stand
His ground, as well as I can. See: he kneels
On wooden flooring with palms flat - each hand
Shows how the stress of waiting softly steals
Into the mind, despite the strength of will,
That wants to be accepting, with the taste
Of any dare that's thrown down. There's a thrill
Unique in such passivity - it's laced
With intimacy, truly resonant
With his relief he is my dominant.
His back to show him just how harsh the bite
Can feel when flogger is employed. I like
The idea of him flinching, but not quite
Withdrawing from the bet that he can stand
His ground, as well as I can. See: he kneels
On wooden flooring with palms flat - each hand
Shows how the stress of waiting softly steals
Into the mind, despite the strength of will,
That wants to be accepting, with the taste
Of any dare that's thrown down. There's a thrill
Unique in such passivity - it's laced
With intimacy, truly resonant
With his relief he is my dominant.
Published 31st Dec 2021
Author's Note
good for men to learn how it feels to follow before they try to lead
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31st Dec 2021 12:41pm
I love pain
Let's get that out there
Giving and getting
I'm Dominant by nature
But really a switch in my mind
Anything I ever did to a woman I did to myself first
I had to know how to process the pain
Then I began to love the pain more than being Dominant
It's a heady mix
Often I Dominate myself
Love this offering
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Let's get that out there
Giving and getting
I'm Dominant by nature
But really a switch in my mind
Anything I ever did to a woman I did to myself first
I had to know how to process the pain
Then I began to love the pain more than being Dominant
It's a heady mix
Often I Dominate myself
Love this offering
BIG LIKE
31st Dec 2021 4:49pm
31st Dec 2021 12:51pm
Wow the SWITCH I agree you truly should take the pain before delivering it. Gives you a fully view on the art
Love and light
Ron xx
Love and light
Ron xx
31st Dec 2021 4:51pm
31st Dec 2021 4:49pm
Much agree....using instruments of pain on yourself first helps to understand pain delivered. I am not into pain. Not a switch....but, I'll take one for the team.
31st Dec 2021 4:52pm
31st Dec 2021 10:27pm
I agree. So, I hired a full fledged New Orleans professional. 30 lashes with a whip on my chest, leaving 3 weeks of open confidence.
Then a flurry of flogging on my back, leaving me to see colors: lavender, green, and orange halos.
A trained dominatrix knows her business. Then I took lessons with a 4 foot single tail. Made my own floggers.
I have an idea. I'm still not a masochist. But, I can be a Little sadistic.
Then a flurry of flogging on my back, leaving me to see colors: lavender, green, and orange halos.
A trained dominatrix knows her business. Then I took lessons with a 4 foot single tail. Made my own floggers.
I have an idea. I'm still not a masochist. But, I can be a Little sadistic.
2nd Jan 2022 10:47am
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31st Dec 2021 6:47pm
31st Dec 2021 6:56pm
Not sure that is always the case - but thanks all the same - have a happy new year
31st Dec 2021 8:30pm
Hmm. This is out of my norm, so I feel that i don't qualify to even comment.
I've never had the urge to cause any pain directly to a woman. It's just not my nature. I'm too much the nurturing type.
Grant it, I'm no wimp. Far from it. But I'd be too concerned that I'm hurting her, that maybe she'd see me as wimpy. LOL.
That movie, fifty shades of gray, yeah it was kinda hot. But, as a man i wanted to beat the shit outta that dude. Maybe that's the dad part of me, too. I dunno.
What I do appreciate, is how you give if get, with this. Let him know, respect stays.
I've never had the urge to cause any pain directly to a woman. It's just not my nature. I'm too much the nurturing type.
Grant it, I'm no wimp. Far from it. But I'd be too concerned that I'm hurting her, that maybe she'd see me as wimpy. LOL.
That movie, fifty shades of gray, yeah it was kinda hot. But, as a man i wanted to beat the shit outta that dude. Maybe that's the dad part of me, too. I dunno.
What I do appreciate, is how you give if get, with this. Let him know, respect stays.
31st Dec 2021 10:02pm
1st Jan 2022 1:32pm
Made me think of the Atticus quote. "You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view… until you climb in his skin and walk around in it.” – Atticus
The point is not to change the dominant into a submissive but being in your shoes may educate him on your needs, which he can then administer.
The point is not to change the dominant into a submissive but being in your shoes may educate him on your needs, which he can then administer.
2nd Jan 2022 10:48am
