No fixing needed

Men are fixers.
That’s what we do.
It’s built into our DNA
and for many we don’t
realise it and cannot,
therefore, cope with
how much it affects
the way we relate to
our partners.
If we can learn to keep
this out of our reactions
to stress and worry in
someone we love and
just worry for them but
not about them we will
not need to fix what only
they can fix so decrease
the stress for them and
relate to who they are and
and not what we would
wish them to be.
We all want our loves to
feel free of pain and stress
but to achieve that does
not require a demonstration.
we only need to show love,
to give love and to know we
share that love together.