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ENOUGH SAID I'M DONE
I feel it necessary to speak to those men's out there somewhere and someplace, who are going through this type of relationship with a woman. For you can bet you are not alone in this struggle and fight, when it concerns the well being and right to be able to have a relationship with your childrens. As it is happening every day in some men's life, due to a woman using the childrens as a hostage against the man being a father. For I know there are some men's out here, who don't do nothing at all with no time no effort and no responsibility nor money. Yet as a dead beat dad, you are the ones that gets to see there children's no matter what you don't do, I just don't get it for why is it that we as real men's. Have to beg you and fight with you even for our visitation rights, ordered by the courts cause you refuse to be mature enough, for the children's well being. Yet you still want that child support check ever month and lord knows don't let it be late, you quick to go to court and file a petition against us yet you won't file an petition against a dead beat dad. As you don't see nothing that you are doing wrong within your eyes nor mind. When will some of you woman's out here stop the madness, and insanity of hurting the men's that haven't forgotten about their responsibilities for the well being of their children's. When will you woman's out here STOP using the systematic system against, the good men's out here who are still trying to be apart of their children's lives as a real father and as real men's.
Author's Note
I WROTE THIS PIECE FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE OF DEALING WITH A WOMAN, WHO I HAD TO DEAL WITH MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY AND SPIRITUALLY, JUST TO BE ABLE TO SEE MY OWN CHILD BUT YET AS THE YEARS PASS I LEARN THE HARD WAY, A VERY EYE OPENING EXPERIENCE AS I FOUND OUT TEN YEARS LATER HE WASN'T EVEN MY BIOLOGICAL CHILD, NOW YOU KNOW WHEN THE REALIZATION HIT ME AFTER ALL THOSE YEARS OF DRAMA AND STRESS, THAT I BEEN THROUGH WITH FIGHTING WITH HER FOR TEN YEARS AND WITH THE FAMILY COURTS BUT THAT'S ANOTHER STORY FOR ANOTHER TIME, BUT YOU GET WHERE I'M GOING WITH THIS PIECE AS IT IS POWERFUL AND THOUGHT PROVOKING...STONEY BAY
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Re. ENOUGH SAID I'M DONE
29th Jul 2020 5:52pm
Children should never be used against a parent and to be truthful some girls don't know how good they have it. I can't speak for girls who act like this because I'm not that way but coming from a woman that's all some of them know. If her father wasn't there she wouldn't know what a father being there looks like. It can be many reasons why she act like. Hopefully she's willing to sit down with you and have a honest conversion about getting on the same.
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29th Jul 2020 8:39pm
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29th Jul 2020 9:29pm
I totally agree with you wholehearted for no one should use there children's against another parent but yet it is sad that so many do out of spike sometimes situations changes that's life whether we want to face it or not I am glad to hear that you are not like that for even though the relationship may be over at least we can act like we got some sense as adults for our children's learn from us about how you deal with the process of the break up and yes some don't have that father in there lives to show them what a real man looks like and through there own eyes but yet it is a beautiful blessing if you are with someone who isn't that way as they are rare and few thank you for the read and commenting much appreciated dear poetess..respect
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29th Jul 2020 10:16pm
Thank you for the read and commenting much appreciated for its sad in so many ways that people would step this low when it is really about the children's not them how confuse some people think respect dear poetess
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29th Jul 2020 10:18pm
Just telling it like it is real talk straight up on the rocks I am a witness to this type of actions as it was a hard pill to swallow respect dear poetess
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29th Jul 2020 10:28pm
I bet. It takes a courageous treasure to write this. 💎👍And it needs saying!
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Words so true for when you grow up in on the east side of Brooklyn NYC with no father you have to learn fast at an early age by example of what you see around you for if you don't have that father figure in your life to teach you won't learn how to be a real man I'm just glad that I had a few good men's in and around my life to instill in me that kind of genuine understanding of what it means to be a man even if the child isn't yours biologically but in a sense they are your children's if you help raise them and teach them what you had to learn 🙏🤗
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Good point...but just out of curiosity when u found out she wasn't yours did u drop the ball and quit fighting for her?
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29th Jul 2020 10:25pm
No he was my son and he has my first middle last name he's a Jr for nothing was gonna change that in my heart and mind for I didn't go through the process of raising him to walk away because his mother always knew the truth it's not his fault nor his blame for I grew up without a father but I had my grandpa in my life who taught me how to be responsible as a man even though over the years I don't hear from him but I am thankful for the time I had with him as I still have my memories of raising him as a father and real man 🤗respect dear poetess
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29th Jul 2020 10:45pm
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29th Jul 2020 11:58pm
Yes indeed I did he went on to college something I didn't do cause I was so involve with the street life at an early age I am proud of him and that makes me proud of him for I always told him don't be me do better than me not a drug dealer or a hustler living on the edge of street life and he did just what I instilled in him he works at the hospital now helping people as a therapist for the elderly 🤗
Re. ENOUGH SAID I'M DONE
29th Jul 2020 11:10pm
Still got a lot of RESPECT for you STONEY BAY your Strong either way 🙌👁️🙏
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1st Aug 2020 12:20pm
I appreciate the compliment and support for this is something dear to my heart and soul respect dear poetess and enjoy your day today Queen
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1st Aug 2020 12:22pm
Thank you dear poetess for there are those men's out here who knows what it feels like to be denied the right to be able to be apart of there children's lives whether its yours or not for we do exist as real men's respect dear poetess and enjoy your day today 🤗🙏