Stereotype

What does it mean to be a strong, proud, black woman?
I've given this a lot of thought, and I'm here to tell you now
its not always what you've been taught.
Generally you have to be dark, milk chocolate, ebony brown skin.
Natural hair, spit out history, absent of any physical flaws or sin.
Some people call it being a "bad bitch", "tough chick",
always staring challenges in the face.
Holding the symbol of the mother country on her shoulders like
she was fresh bread from the African race.
Her voice loud, made to be  heard.
Out spoken even when not spoken to.
Self confident, wise mind, strapped and prepared for whatever life puts her through.

But all this is not just from my observations,
I have listen to what many men have said.
What a black man looks for in another black woman when
he wants to settle down and wed.
Or cuff. Make a wifey. Whatever the lingo.
But something about this stereotype does not seem right though.

See, my skin is taffy colored. Some call it caramel.
My hair dyed red, blemishes all over my skin,
and not too much black history to tell.
I'm not outwardly opinionated or always "down for the cause".
I'm not about to die just because  you wanna ride!!
I'm crazy, weird, and pretty much a different person every day.
I don't like most shows on BET, but hell yea I'll watch some anime!

I prefer old English poetry over Robert Hayden or Rita Dove.
Don't misunderstand, I give my people support and love.
But since when do my opinions, my, hair, my ideas, my personality,
the clothes I ware, my preference and attitude make me any less black and proud?

When it comes to defining a strong, proud, black woman
I'm the opposite of what's being said.
I believe its about being proud about the choice you make and
the life you have led. Striving everyday to do your best.
Putting  your enemies behind you and let God handle the rest.

So don't give in the hype,
you may not always fit that stereotype.
No matter your age, gender or color
respect, love, and support each other.