Ditch her or you fall in a ditch

You shouldn't try  

to gain occupancy  
 
when there is no vacancy  
 
Even if there develops some chemistry  
 
doesn't mean you should think  
 
with your biological ink  
 
Too bad males can't be a lady's penpal  
 
because they think with their penises😩.  
 
I mean I chat with an American lady pen pal for years from time to time  
 
and its super easy to stay just sisterly, friendly 
but men just can't just chat for long and be just friends with a lady like me  
without soon morphing into a morphine lover.
 
So its time I formed a 'no chatting' shield around me  
so none of us yield to temptations.  
A woman has space for only one man in her heart and mind  
All others have to be pushed off without hurting them.  
 
If you have a  hubby with a high libido  
by day , by night
Such a wife does not need to be another's aphrodite.  
 
A lady might be ravishing but doesn't have to be an aphrodisiac  
to a man other than her hubby, stay away o' sex maniac.
 
When wrongful attraction gets you all you need is some distraction away from magnet...