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The Sweet Spot
Is there a sweet spot between intimacy and excitement that can lead to the perfect relationship?
Let's face it, love can be beautiful and liberating when it's achieved. Love can also be frustratingly elusive, intangible and maddening.
Love is also impossible to fake, it cannot be manufactured, you cannot be manipulated nor coerced into it because sooner or later the jig always comes to an end. You need to work endlessly, gain experience to keep things anew because maintaining Love can become tiring.
What aspects of our reality can transform people's thoughts, actions, physicalities and ideals, the things we can control in conjunction with the things we cannot control to collide in the right environment to create a spark and for that spark to flourish into something exciting and grand, extraordinary and unforgettable beautiful.
What is this thing you might ask? It's Love ♥️ of course.
Is the mathematical formula of Timing + Mutual Attraction + Communication + Chemistry minus Emotional Baggage + Bad Habits can somehow end up ='ing Intimacy.
Do penises size and shapes, inability to become or maintain erection + some women inability to experience the thrilling, pulsating, gushingly happy euphoric feelings of orgasm ruin the chances of developing the perfect relationship.
What about one night stands, threesomes, orgies, masturbation, enjoyment of watching porn with or without sex toys? Do these experiences diminish a person's abilities to find a suitable mate to possibly love and build the perfect relationship.
And let's not forget perhaps the biggest hurdles of all, what are they?
Expectations for some and Experience for others.
Let's face it, love can be beautiful and liberating when it's achieved. Love can also be frustratingly elusive, intangible and maddening.
Love is also impossible to fake, it cannot be manufactured, you cannot be manipulated nor coerced into it because sooner or later the jig always comes to an end. You need to work endlessly, gain experience to keep things anew because maintaining Love can become tiring.
What aspects of our reality can transform people's thoughts, actions, physicalities and ideals, the things we can control in conjunction with the things we cannot control to collide in the right environment to create a spark and for that spark to flourish into something exciting and grand, extraordinary and unforgettable beautiful.
What is this thing you might ask? It's Love ♥️ of course.
Is the mathematical formula of Timing + Mutual Attraction + Communication + Chemistry minus Emotional Baggage + Bad Habits can somehow end up ='ing Intimacy.
Do penises size and shapes, inability to become or maintain erection + some women inability to experience the thrilling, pulsating, gushingly happy euphoric feelings of orgasm ruin the chances of developing the perfect relationship.
What about one night stands, threesomes, orgies, masturbation, enjoyment of watching porn with or without sex toys? Do these experiences diminish a person's abilities to find a suitable mate to possibly love and build the perfect relationship.
And let's not forget perhaps the biggest hurdles of all, what are they?
Expectations for some and Experience for others.
Published 1st Oct 2022
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3rd Oct 2022 2:38pm
I like the entire vibe of this musing, my poet. And the message was worth adhering too and taking under consideration when trying to find that soul mate who gives comfort to our heart and mind...
Enjoy your Monday as well..
Enjoy your Monday as well..
12th Mar 2023 5:37am
Love is a feeling, which is not from the mind but from the heart and it includes many feelings and different thoughts. Love slowly moves from affection to happiness. It's a strong attraction and a sense of personal connection that prompts her to forget all else and go with him. well Love basically means that someone else has become more important than you. It can also be painful, because it threatens your existence. The moment you say to someone, 'I love you', you lose all your freedom. Whatever you have, you lose it. You can't do whatever you want to do in life. There are so many obstacles, but at the same time it goes on pulling you in.. well played!
13th Mar 2023 7:26pm
The heart is just an organ, everything about love happens in the brain, the chemical reactions happens there. The heart only responds the way it does because of those feel good chemicals, nothing more nothing less. Our brain process the sensations which releases the good feelings. Everything we are and feel happens in the brain. But it's perfectly okay to romanticize and express (poetically, physically, metaphysically, and spiritually) those feelings in your own way whatever your love languages are. Much love and thank you.
