By The Way

By the way, did you know that the good ole USA according to Salon Magazine is not even on the list of most sexually satisfied countries. Even communist China has us beat, never mind Switzerland, Italy, Japan, Spain, the Netherlands, Brazil, Greece, Mexico, India, Australia, Germany, and Nigeria to name a few.  
      
  The legacy of the Christian imprimatur has devastated the sexual ecosystem of the American Psyche.  The language used by the middle minded "good people" to describe sexuality is often an ugly cocktail composed of derisive language, like disgusting, slimy, unclean, offensive, obscene, squalid, and nasty to name some. These words remain a mantra of harm in many relationships shaping a marriage towards abject failure. Isn't Venus already fickle enough without calling that regal gift-giver of love and sexual pleasure an omnibus of epithets?
 
While most all praise only tenderness who says sex is just about love, gentility, and the tender, which is promulgated by middle-minded. Is this turd worm pathology rooted in anti-sexual Victorian confabulations of the synoptic religions like tattoo ink into the psychic skin forming a deep seated stain of medieval horrors evocative of a Boschesque inferno with bubbling skin, pitch forks and melting collagen?
As for language  I prefer mango drip shake kissy witchy tits myself, as opposed to disgusting, but profanity can be bicameral too. On one hand of course it can be cruel on the other it can be an aphrodisiac.

Ooow your so gona get it you little bitch

Context in its intersectional shades of emotional content is everything.
Do we appreciate the impulses of the chaotic dusky subconscious that may fascinate when it comes to those erotic ideations that may cross our minds in the most private of moments Why not use them to enrich your life, or do we run from them and our primal truth?     
      
  In a life filled with stress and endless concerns about survival erotic expression is a sacred oasis for many of us, not another place to be told what we should do, or feel, or think, or be subliminally infested by Piscean age pathogens as we currently remain still in the grips of the old Roman empire.    
      
  Through an in depth exploration of erotasisim via porn, personal experience and literature we might know our own shadows better, share them happily with others, and bring that dark harvest to light so it doesn't trip us up in an exchange of lies to others but most importantly to our selves. At least when you hookup on a social media sex/date oriented site people tend to tell you the most intimate things about themselves up front.      
   
It may be important to note the difference between mere sexuality and erotasisim. Eroticism raises sex to the status of art.