HOW MUCH MORE WE NEED TO SEE

I would like to speak upon something, that seems to be able and willing to be apart of the norm of some relationships. No matter how long it goes on even if it's make believe built on a false sense of love. But doesn't actions speak louder than words, as you've been there and done that before so why do we ignore the facts, before our eyes when we can see and hear the lies of why words carry no real meaning, to the point of real understanding of commitment and consistency and real communications. But yet we entertain the idea of someone, base upon there appearance and someone's words and not there actions, thus finding ourselves trap within a spider webs of lies. Who's only purpose is to eat you alive and keep you from seeking and searching for a way out, and seeing the real truth before your eyes for it is through those transcending thoughts. We slowly begin to dive into our subconsciousness reaching into the deepness of our souls. As we begin to ask thyself is this really worth, all this madness and insanity of hurt and pain if it isn't really love. For why do we ignore the signs that tell us what we already know, but yet we continue on as though there is nothing wrong with the relationship but yet that is far from the truth. So what will it take for you to truly understand wholeheartedly, that you are worthy not unworthy as you are worthy of self value and self worth. For how much longer before we realize that what you have isn't really for YOU, for how much longer will you let them abuse you mentally and emotionally and physically and spiritually???