Love Shouldn't Hurt

It easy to find the negative of anything, Its almost human nature. It is also a lazy way to go about life. the problem is a lot of people do not want to put the effort it takes to find positives, or to treat another person positively. On the other side of the hat it is the negative words that tattoo themselves to your psyche while the positive words and emotions are washed away with every rain. Basically if you shower someone with positivity for 364 days and the next day barrage them with negativity, ten years later no matter the result of those ten years, positive, or negative, it is those negative words that will likely be remembered and still playing games in ones head. Why does the brain work this way in most people, that is for smarter people than me to figure out.