The Loving "Top"

Does not set out              
To re-claim          
Or extract              
Power                
That he or she/they                
Lost to                
Someone else,                
Destroy esteem                
With the                
Intents                
Of getting                
Over                
On someone                
Or beat                
Emotions                
Down                
To a pulp                
At large                
But is instead                
Interested                
In penetrating                
Facades,                
Coercing                
Secrets out                
Like an                
Art form;                
Testing                
For psychological                
Impact-              
They are    
Concerned    
About      
How you're    
Going to    
Hold Up      
(During and after)  
Simulation                
And if                
There is                
A break                
There are                
Mechanisms                
In place                
To build you                
Back up                
Again                
Corrective          
Measure          
Mapping out                
The events                
Around                
3 words:                
Safe, sane                
And consensual                
Then comes                
Pre-rehearsal,                
Troubleshooting                
For the                
Pending                
Descent                
Into                
Sexual poverty;                
Making                
“Love”                
Exceptionally                
Humane                
On robust terms.            
           
(And this contract, yes contract sign/date and sometimes you need a witness; this is usually not taken up lightly. This is serious business; not insta mix. I was reading some of these entries out here and some of ya’ll are making me laugh.)