The Seductive Power of Sentient Lovers

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“The mistake that most make is thinking that sex begins once we are naked and straddling each other in the darkness of desire. To be a sentient lover is to arouse our paramour from miles away by the sheer flavor of our mind, and the promises of what is to come…”
“‘Move me’ she said, hitching up her skirt to straddle my mind.” ~ Victor Fore

A mature man and mature woman initiates sex with seduction, they become immersed in their lover like a prey is in their conquest. Eyes caressing the skin, skin crawling knowing it’s coverings are being stripped, deep inhales, increased heartbeats and blood flow. All of these physical elements are parts of the chemical formula that articulates sex, but to use orgasm as a vehicle to transport our mind momentarily to another plane one must open the delicious doorway that is our lover’s mind. We need to slit their skull in half, crawl inside their cranium, and mind fuck them so that all of their societal training, all of their polished culture, and even their base instinct from which they derive all of their decision making becomes subjugated to the pleasure that you can provide.

You are going through the same actions, using the same techniques as the thousands of generations before you, sex isn’t new! The difference is your lover is so aroused by even the idea of contact that their muscles tense, saliva production increases, their eyes dilate, the hairs on their skin become erect and the skin itself transforms into an uber-sensitive membrane. The body feels so suffocated by clothing that wearing garments feels like itchy sandpaper scraping the skin raw and you must de-robe, and why? Because the mind has convinced the federation of your body that it must make contact with the other. This is carnal attraction! The nostrils flare desperate to inhale the other persons’ natural scent, which is why we breathe so heavily and deeply around a person we are deeply attracted to.  These are physical indicators that you are not only attracted to a person’s body, but that each of your senses has become inundated with their presence! The only segment of the body left unaffected upon physical attraction is the mind and the associated soul within it.

To reach this part of our lover we need to stimulate their psyche. Entice their desire, sure, but more so asphyxiate their thoughts so that you are intertwined in their very brain waves. When we sleep our unconscious gives us dreams of others, but a sentient lover must infiltrate the consciousness and inhabit not just the dreams but the ideas of their lover.  You must intrude on the simplest choices that the other makes so that each decision reminds them of you. Something as simple as wearing the color blue, having coffee in the morning, eating a brownie even driving to work they envision you sitting next to them, all of these things they associate with you. These shallow interactions with the world transform into a constant exchange with your essence.

How does someone penetrate another so deeply?  The physical attraction is your doorway, simply by allowing themselves to picture you as lover permits you to enter their thoughts.  From there you challenge their perceptions of you and stimulate their observations; conversing with that person will even invigorate their ear canal seducing their auricles with the hymn and pitch of your voice. Becoming intellectually naked, revealing your secrets with simple gestures, instructing them on all things you. “I had a dream of you last night,” or, “Am thinking of you today,” and “What do you think about…” Disclosing your confidences, divulging your mysteries, and exposing the building blocks of your foundation. That mixed with visual stimulation, sensory provocation, and physical motivation will make them an eager student in the subject of you. Let me be clear, you are not enslaving your lover, in spite of the domination that comes when you make another person ache for you, in order for the mental mind-fuck to be proportional, you must absorb your lover as you become emancipated from yourself; otherwise you become empty and ungratified. Stripping yourself of your mental barriers and emotional clothing to become purely a being of delectation makes you hollow-and a hollow being takes on an aimless and futile existence post-coitus.

*WARNING*
“To burn with desire and keep quiet about it is the greatest punishment we can bring on ourselves and others.” ~ Federico Garcia Lorca
Attraction unrevealed quickly turns into obsession! A mature human is capable of verbally disclosing their desire for another, and even if there are barriers preventing them from acting covetously it is psychologically unhealthy to keep their feelings hidden. Once we give feelings of physical attraction autonomy they tend to dissipate if we are not continually stimulated. That’s why once an immature being acts on their sexual cravings for another they feel relief in that moment of post-coital bliss. There is no danger in articulating our attraction for another and establishing limits so that the attraction remains simply physical.  What makes us vulnerable to true hazards, is when we don’t allow openness to these emotions and they transform into obsession, passion, fixation, and occupation of the mind. If you have the power of mindful seduction as described above and you have the skills to target that persuasion then proceed carefully, because like a wave unleashed on a shoreline it can result in barren desolation of another person. Test the waters and be receptive to the limits that people erect between you and them, you must be able to free and harness your abilities or destruction will always follow you. It would be helpful if the adults that surround you could be mature enough to know and establish their limits because then you would know how to maneuver, but regretfully you must discover their limits for them if they exist.  The others that are open to mental, emotional, spiritual and physical liberation are accessible to you. I know boundaries for the sentient lover don’t exist because in their very nature they are phantoms on this plane, having opened themselves up to these abilities make them evanescent in their own bodies and they can only connect to cognizant sensibilities briefly. That being said, the mortal self that they occupy and operate through can discern these limitations and restrain itself from acting.