Is A Man What You Want?

Is he...
Strong?
Check.
Loyal?
Check.
Sensitive?
Protective?
Check.
Possessive, but not controlling?
Decisive?
Check.
Willing...To listen, To share, To just be there?
Check.
And check again.
Do you really want a man who is driven, and everyday willing, to go all out?
Or, do you want a puppet who will place all he is in your hands and under your control?
Do you want a point and shoot attack dog so you can scare those around you into letting you have your way?
Do you want a loud and visible, but ineffective watch dog, who people fear only when they see him or feel they are in his area of control?
Do you really want a proper guard dog? One who can see trouble coming? One who is concerned most about protecting that which has been entrusted to him, image be damned! And is willing and able to act when necessary against any and all dangers that may arise?
Do you really want a man? One who is focused and unshakeable in pursuit of his mission and purpose? Or do you want someone who lets your insecurities stop him from pushing hard cause you feel "ignored"?
Do you want a man who is  actually sensitive to your needs?
Or just  someone who caters to your whimsy and wish?

Tell me
Really,
Is A Man What You Want?