Sexual Objectivity and Subjectivity

     In man and woman romantic relationships, is objectivity an evil? If so, so could be complete subjectivity that is without initiative, thought, and strategy for seeking another’s pleasure. If subjectively motivated, objective processes could greater fulfill the subjective being. To see a body as the pieces of that body that can lead to another’s satisfaction and contentment can be a blessing. The curse is to not see the person within the body as the ultimate destination or to seek only one’s own satisfaction or to snatch another’s body away from him/her and make a separation of initiatives, the body’s and the soul’s, instead of blending the initiatives together in the acting of making love and not merely having sex. What is the perfect blend of objectivity and subjectivity? I give you this rule by which you can guide your objective and subjective endeavors: The knowledge of the body must be used to bless the soul.