Real Man

Ladies, I hear you screaming as loud as you can,how you want,how you crave, you gotta have a real man,question, do you know the definition of this phrase?, cuz alot of yall out there never cease to amaze, with your choices,Im not tryna be funny, or call you out as dummies, but the shoe fits you well, im afraid your wearing it honey,tryna school you to the fact that your choice was pathetic,and you wonder why your lifes gone to hell,wait a second,that boy over there need to get himself a job,wash his body,brush his teeth,quit tryna lie and scheme on the next innocent to rob, feel me?, i thought that you might,im no where near finished theres alot that aint right,why that boy over there always got his gear tight, but his kids look like they rob the dollar store every night,why that boy over there tryna holla at your friend,and her friend,and her friend before coming home again,why that boy over there in that bed while you struggle,steady getting high, yet claiming to hustle,why that boy over there make you feel good inside, but you cant get .75 cents for a bus ride,why that boy over there talking on a phone with no service,need a wifi connection cuz the bill made him nervous,why that boy over there got no time for his kids,but can meet a new chic and claim seeds that aint his,why that boy over there never tell the truth,even when you got undeniable proof,why that boy over there puttin bruises on your face,throwin daggers at your spirit, your own blood you taste,why that boy over there swear he control somebody, its time to shut down the little boys pity party,they need a little time out to listen to this lesson,and ladies pay attention these are answers to your questions,if you allow it, grown men will behave like boys,call a spade a spade, theres no need for extra noise,simmer down let me tell you what a real man is, he is loyal to his woman and adores his kids,he is strong enough help you conquer your fears,yet sensitive enough to let you wipe his tears,he has grown up enough to handle real responsibility, 50/50 on the rent and all the utilities, he is motivated enough to try and achieve every goal, washing dishes and taking trash out without being told, he is man enough to admit when he's in the wrong, and will do all he can to make sure yall get along, he understands what it means to have daddy time, so mommy gets to relax,chill,and unwind,he understands that there's no rush or hurry to reproduce,avoiding single mistakes by putting condoms to use, he recognizes a good woman and will keep her by his side,because no man is complete without his joy and his pride,ladies if you haven't figured it out yet,finding a real man starts with self respect,understanding your status as queen of your temple,make dating a challenge,never make it simple,refuse to submit to unhealthy situations, just to satisfy the lust of sexual frustration, realize that independence and strength are essential,never rely on a man,the results are consequential,he wants a partner in life not a bandwagon rider,and every woman wants to say she got a good man beside her, so stop,reflect,and evaluate yourself,know that your in charge of the cards your dealt,when you know your doing the best that you can,on your own two feet proudly you stand,confident in self,respect you demand, then you'll meet the eyes of a real man.