In your eyes what you think?

Realistic means  in my eyes  everyone has problems everyone has a problems to deal with, everyone has the worst story than everyone else. Everyone has a sad story.  You can never tell me there's someone out there that is  100 percent happy with there life. There's always some thinking you can make this better,  you can do this better realistic things. Like your 280 pounds you can't lose it all in one day. Unless you do libo section which caused this $1000 to 1300 up to 25000. To me keep your dreams realistic do what you know you can do an then, strive for better.. To me  it just everyone has difficulties, everyone has hate in thim whether they say they don't or not.  To me that realistic. So tell me what you think realistic is in your eyes?