How to know when your being used?

Sweet perfect lines
"I want something serious with someone"  he says to me

Sweet perfect lies 
"I love you" in less than a month????

Adventorous hands exploring my curves and secret places....
"this is all yours" you say and i reply moaning the same

Take me love me that's all I want
"I'm not ready for a serious relationship" u tell me (but u kiss me touch me and fuck me?!)
 
I wanna be yours again but you ignore my calls
"Why do you call me so much I was taking a shower"  or "drving" bull shit

 finally when I gave up all hope and cry myself to sleep you send me a txt msg
"You wanna see me"  and I say well my mom is home so if you'd like you can
and you say "I wanted to see you alone and kiss you and stuff" 

Wtf was that stuff let me gues..... Fuck

thats all you ever wanted from me was that.... so yes I was used and Im still being used because i have hope it is me just being paranoid and he is for real.