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funny that...
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absolutely, couldn't agree more. i'm just talking about consistency. i'm all for forgiveness. can't speak for the people the above person offended obviously but if they can forgive I don't see why I can't
there's still too much focus on the past. while most everyone else has moved on there's still those who revel in discord and such bitterness. its sad
there's still too much focus on the past. while most everyone else has moved on there's still those who revel in discord and such bitterness. its sad
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I came here in October last year without guile -- i checked in with an Admin I've always trusted from the beginning.
If she had told me not a good idea or not welcomed I would have reluctantly moved on.
I have always been a supporter of DU and always will. New writers will ever need a place like this to come to for encouragement and growth.
If she had told me not a good idea or not welcomed I would have reluctantly moved on.
I have always been a supporter of DU and always will. New writers will ever need a place like this to come to for encouragement and growth.
Miss_Sub said:Tallen here’s the thing.
1) Crocodile tears ain’t washing, Pal.
2) At what stage did you think suddenly revealing who you were after months... after causing such havoc in the past... after messing with peoples lives... after showing interest in my fkn music despite knowing it would upset me if I knew it was you did you think I would be ok with this? I mean talk me through the thought process here.
I’m giving you one opportunity to explain.
It's been Years, not months, and I understand the feel and what You are saying. I checked with Admin and some Vet poets before and upon coming back -- knowing some might have longer memories. I have not caused any trouble since last year October and feel i've helped and contributed to the community. This said, i cannot undo the shit of the past. Only ask for forgiveness.
I am still intensely interested in Your voice (singing -- still have the link saved).......still interested in Your voice and poetical opinions........have no interest in continuing this hate (still not much idea of the what or why) and if this is my poetical life on the block here at DUP then all i have to offer is ...........
i am really sorry for the trauma and discord my name and presence has caused -- though in those days, if we remember...........i had no voice or voices allowed to speak for me.
I read and viewed much of this hate from afar.
I asked all most Friends back then to de-friend me or block me to protect their profiles.
Many did and many chose to support me in different ways much to my sad.
I am truly saddened that this misunderstanding and (hate?) persists.
I have been told to let this go and it will blow over.........................
Hmm, advice i received long long ago and evidently
when people believe what they want to believe
even when i say i am not that profile --------
people lean with the mob.
I am truly sorry for believing it was OK for me to reveal my true self and actually become a active growing member of DUP.
If allowed,
I'd like to remain and will remain in the backdrop
nurturing the writers who feel like they are ignored or not read.
It's something i do well -- reaching out to those new.
1) Crocodile tears ain’t washing, Pal.
2) At what stage did you think suddenly revealing who you were after months... after causing such havoc in the past... after messing with peoples lives... after showing interest in my fkn music despite knowing it would upset me if I knew it was you did you think I would be ok with this? I mean talk me through the thought process here.
I’m giving you one opportunity to explain.
It's been Years, not months, and I understand the feel and what You are saying. I checked with Admin and some Vet poets before and upon coming back -- knowing some might have longer memories. I have not caused any trouble since last year October and feel i've helped and contributed to the community. This said, i cannot undo the shit of the past. Only ask for forgiveness.
I am still intensely interested in Your voice (singing -- still have the link saved).......still interested in Your voice and poetical opinions........have no interest in continuing this hate (still not much idea of the what or why) and if this is my poetical life on the block here at DUP then all i have to offer is ...........
i am really sorry for the trauma and discord my name and presence has caused -- though in those days, if we remember...........i had no voice or voices allowed to speak for me.
I read and viewed much of this hate from afar.
I asked all most Friends back then to de-friend me or block me to protect their profiles.
Many did and many chose to support me in different ways much to my sad.
I am truly saddened that this misunderstanding and (hate?) persists.
I have been told to let this go and it will blow over.........................
Hmm, advice i received long long ago and evidently
when people believe what they want to believe
even when i say i am not that profile --------
people lean with the mob.
I am truly sorry for believing it was OK for me to reveal my true self and actually become a active growing member of DUP.
If allowed,
I'd like to remain and will remain in the backdrop
nurturing the writers who feel like they are ignored or not read.
It's something i do well -- reaching out to those new.
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Sorry I've moved this thread to the Boiler Room because it's gone off topic. However, it serves as a fantastic example of why I don't want to implement any kind of chat feature on here!
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forgiveness seems to be difficult for some, despite appearing as those at the forefront of the loving and forgiveness brigade - people are sometimes not what they seem to be or peddlers of BS. The Unforgiven can only request forgiveness, once done they have to move on regarding these people as toxic. There is a lot of drama on here and some toxic people and I echo the comment of the webmiss as I originally stated that I was not in favour of a DU Chatroom - people who want to connect and chat have various other options
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Tallen said:I came here in October last year without guile -- i checked in with an Admin I've always trusted from the beginning.
If she had told me not a good idea or not welcomed I would have reluctantly moved on.
I have always been a supporter of DU and always will. New writers will ever need a place like this to come to for encouragement and growth.
i'd have a bit more respect for you if you were honest. but even now when you're asking people for forgiveness you're not being honest.
a. though you've asked for forgiveness you've shifted the blame unto your room mate. a tactic used before by an indian fellow who was caught plago-ing people's poems. it didn't work for him, not gonna work for you. if you genuinely want to be forgiven take responsibility for your shit
b. you've been here a long time before last October. off the top of my head Empty tree is you but there's been others too
so basically you're still dishonest...
up to you to sort that out innit
If she had told me not a good idea or not welcomed I would have reluctantly moved on.
I have always been a supporter of DU and always will. New writers will ever need a place like this to come to for encouragement and growth.
i'd have a bit more respect for you if you were honest. but even now when you're asking people for forgiveness you're not being honest.
a. though you've asked for forgiveness you've shifted the blame unto your room mate. a tactic used before by an indian fellow who was caught plago-ing people's poems. it didn't work for him, not gonna work for you. if you genuinely want to be forgiven take responsibility for your shit
b. you've been here a long time before last October. off the top of my head Empty tree is you but there's been others too
so basically you're still dishonest...
up to you to sort that out innit
lepperochan said:
i'd have a bit more respect for you if you were honest. but even now when you're asking people for forgiveness you're not being honest.
a. though you've asked for forgiveness you've shifted the blame unto your room mate. a tactic used before by an indian fellow who was caught plago-ing people's poems. it didn't work for him, not gonna work for you. if you genuinely want to be forgiven take responsibility for your shit
b. you've been here a long time before last October. off the top of my head Empty tree is you but there's been others too
so basically you're still dishonest...
up to you to sort that out innit
You all are being super unkind to whoever Empty Tree is!!
That is not me. I don't even spill like him.
& for the record my ex roommate has already (in the past) emailed the Webmiss about what happened.
Lastly, I was unable to register here as
Cryptic Poet or use original email
because those nomenclatures have been blocked.
& so i have been as authentic as the site would allow.
i'd have a bit more respect for you if you were honest. but even now when you're asking people for forgiveness you're not being honest.
a. though you've asked for forgiveness you've shifted the blame unto your room mate. a tactic used before by an indian fellow who was caught plago-ing people's poems. it didn't work for him, not gonna work for you. if you genuinely want to be forgiven take responsibility for your shit
b. you've been here a long time before last October. off the top of my head Empty tree is you but there's been others too
so basically you're still dishonest...
up to you to sort that out innit
You all are being super unkind to whoever Empty Tree is!!
That is not me. I don't even spill like him.
& for the record my ex roommate has already (in the past) emailed the Webmiss about what happened.
Lastly, I was unable to register here as
Cryptic Poet or use original email
because those nomenclatures have been blocked.
& so i have been as authentic as the site would allow.
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Tallen said:
You all are being super unkind to whoever Empty Tree is!!
That is not me. I don't even spill like him.
& for the record my ex roommate has already (in the past) emailed the Webmiss about what happened.
Lastly, I was unable to register here as
Cryptic Poet or use original email
because those nomenclatures have been blocked.
& so i have been as authentic as the site would allow.
fair enough. that's that then, obviously
You all are being super unkind to whoever Empty Tree is!!
That is not me. I don't even spill like him.
& for the record my ex roommate has already (in the past) emailed the Webmiss about what happened.
Lastly, I was unable to register here as
Cryptic Poet or use original email
because those nomenclatures have been blocked.
& so i have been as authentic as the site would allow.
fair enough. that's that then, obviously
Ahavati
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Glad you're back and this is all sorted, Tallen. Poetry or bust!
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