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poet Anonymous

Theo, you were banned. Your entire dodgy history is on this forum. I’m not the one lying about who I fucking am.

Tallen
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Miss_Sub said:Theo, you were banned. Your entire dodgy history is on this forum. I’m not the one lying about who I fucking am.

people change
people heal
people forgive
'
Missy, please tell me how i wronged You
i really want to make this right.


Tallen
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Tallen said:

people change
people heal
people forgive
'
Missy, please tell me how i wronged You
i really want to make this right.



am sad
really sad that we as evolvinging electrical beiings are unable to move past..........our past  

Ahavati
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Tallen said:

am sad
really sad that we as evolvinging electrical beiings are unable to move past..........our past  


Tallen/Theo, for what it's worth, I really admired your actions on facebook.   You apologized to both Magdalena and Shadoe personally, and they forgave you ( it's all still there for anyone to see ).  Some people will forgive you, and some people won't. In light of that,  I rallied to have you back ( being other perma-banned members are allowed back repeatedly, e.g. - rickE, Gabe, etc, as long as they "behaved themselves " ).  It was voted down because Mods were afraid the aforementioned members you publicly apologized to would be upset, despite the fact that you publicly apologized ( as YOURSELF ), and they accepted.

This is very sad - you have been an exemplary member.  And I know a few who have deleted certain accounts and returned under different monikers.  Which begs the question - if multiple active accounts must be disclosed publicly, should new ones for old members who have left and returned?  It's a tricky one.

Tallen
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Ahavati said:

Theo, for what it's worth, I really admired your actions on facebook.   You apologized to both Magdalena and Shadoe personally, and they forgave you ( it's all still there for anyone to see ).  Some people will forgive you, and some people won't. In light of that,  I rallied to have you back ( being other perma-banned members are allowed back repeatedly, e.g. - rickE, Gabe, etc. ).  It was voted down because Mods were afraid the aforementioned members you publicly apologized to would be upset, despite the fact that you publicly apologized ( as YOURSELF ), and they accepted.

This is very sad - you have been an exemplary member.  And I know a few who have deleted certain accounts and returned under different monikers.  Which begs the question - if multiple active accounts must be disclosed publicly, should new ones for old members who have left and returned?  It's a tricky one.


am truly thankful for getting to know You.
thankful for Your share here ------ You didn't have to.  I may never ever be able to clear my name but i can only hope that my actions and speech pave my way for honorable clearing.

I am every and always grateful for Your share and support

Ahavati
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Tallen said:

am truly thankful for getting to know You.
thankful for Your share here ------ You didn't have to.  I may never ever be able to clear my name but i can only hope that my actions and speech pave my way for honorable clearing.

I am every and always grateful for Your share and support


Whatever happened was before my time.  You've never done anything to me personally.  And those who were allegedly hurt you apologized to publicly as yourself.  They accepted your apology.  

Who am I to hold a personal grudge against you?   I hope this is all sorted for you soon.

Umm
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inechoingsilence said:A chat feature or Discord for DU would be amazing! Writers could decide if they want to talk or not, set up in-real-time- discussions with others, etc.

pretty awesome idea, but I've heard that real time chats might make forums more vacant. dunno how true that is but it's something to consider


Tallen
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Ahavati said:

Whatever happened was before my time.  You've never done anything to me personally.  And those who were allegedly hurt you apologized to publicly as yourself.  They accepted your apology.  

Who am I to hold a personal grudge against you?   I hope this is all sorted for you soon.


My greatest regret is that some incredible spillers have left during this rift.  We are still friends on FB and some still retain their DU protfiles but no longer engage in DU

No grudge i think but just different thoughts of understanding...........Hoping not because of me while i was there.

Ahavati
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Umm said:

pretty awesome idea, but I've heard that real time chats might make forums more vacant. dunno how true that is but it's something to consider



You mean like the current groups?


Tallen said:

My greatest regret is that some incredible spillers have left during this rift.  We are still friends on FB and some still retain their DU protfiles but no longer engage in DU

No grudge i think but just different thoughts of understanding...........Hoping not because of me while i was there.


Tallen/Theo ( I honestly had no idea who you were outside of Tallen until the drama started ).   I know drama can tear up your nerves easily - try to stay grounded in the moment and focus on what's important to you until this is all sorted. Do not beg for forgiveness. It's not about the other person - forgiveness is about you, so that you can move on. Forgive them regardless of whether or not they forgive you, or tell you what you did to them personally (  if anything ).  

Forgive yourself, then focus on what you love - poetry, for as long as you can.

Tallen
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Ahavati said:

Tallen/Theo ( I honestly had no idea who you were outside of Tallen until the drama started ).   I know drama can tear up your nerves easily - try to stay grounded in the moment and focus on what's important to you until this is all sorted. Do not beg for forgiveness. It's not about the other person - forgiveness is about you, so that you can move on. Forgive them regardless of whether or not they forgive you, or tell you what you did to them personally (  if anything ).  

Forgive yourself, then focus on what you love - poetry, for as long as you can.


am trying.........amidst my every flowing tears.........

Ahavati
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Tallen said:

am trying.........amidst my every flowing tears.........


That's all any of us can do.  This too shall pass.  Just breathe.

poet Anonymous

Tallen, as long as you are focusing on poetry here, all is good.

Tallen
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JohnnyBlaze said:Tallen, as long as you are focusing on poetry here, all is good.

appreciate You. Brother
and am gonna do just that.............

(still crying a lot, though)

poet Anonymous

Tallen here’s the thing.

1) Crocodile tears ain’t washing, Pal.

2) At what stage did you think suddenly revealing who you were after months... after causing such havoc in the past... after messing with peoples lives... after showing interest in my fkn music despite knowing it would upset me if I knew it was you did you think I would be ok with this? I mean talk me through the thought process here.

I’m giving you one opportunity to explain.

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wonderful stuff, I guess this means we can forgive and welcome back Gabe now too. I love this part of DU. awesomeness

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