Hold my hand

This creates many questions I don't know we if I have the right to ask. Who is he that wants to be a dad? How old is your daughter?
I admire your concerns as a moment, but so much is left a mystery, I don't know how to comment on this? 13 years? Has she been with the one who wants to be a dad for 13 years? Are they married? Perhaps you don't want to say, but you have put this here, so you must be looking for input and it has made me think, so I hope I'm not being nosey as and asking questions, I just feel I can't offer an honest opinion without more details.
JJ

Dad bio was not in the picture she is 13 now and now he is trying to be dad now there is more to it but that's the jist

I would not trust the motives of a man who suddenly wants to pretend to be daddy. I don't know him, but I would be very suspicious. He didn't want to raise her, now she is becoming a woman, no, I would take out an order of protection. I formerly worked for the New York State Office of Children and Family Services and have heard horror stories about men who suddenly show up when girls are coming of age. No man who takes off when kids need them most ever deserves to show up after the kids have grown up, no matter what their motives are. I have seen this first hand. 13 years? No way!

I think I understand a little more, I went back and read your poem "the moment I lost you", but there is more I don't understand after reading a few others over the last few years. Perhaps too personal for a comment here.
JJ

This is so moving. I know how it feels when you know they have to make their own decisions, but you already went down that road and you what to protect them and hold them a little longer.

Thank you I am glad it was enjoyed