Only you .

You know girl you got is so wrong . All those disappointments were not to take you down . Yes you have been bought to you knees with a trembling heart and eyes that found it hard to see in the dark searching on a hand to hold . All these things were there so you could find your voice your legs your hands mind and your own heart . In such a way that you know how precious and necessary it is to live a life even when it feels all askew when bottom is the top and the top the bottom and friends and family are few and how love can stab you in the back while in your romantic inclination your heart handed them the knife . Given the heads up that life really is a selfish endeavour. How important this information is before an act and after and patience and resilience can only be found alone and at the end of a long day it’s only you who can turn the light on. It was a journey to make you realise that no matter circumstances and people they come they go that you can always find yourself in the midst of all the misleading directions and perspectives. It was the mortar and cement .to lay the bricks so you could build your own foundations . Once done you fill it in with the fine furnishings of self love and compassion but with the added touch of robustness to keep it weather tight amongst the storms for they will come . Never give to much only pay what is due not a penny more . This is the lesson in recognition how it’s only you who can make your house a home .