Being you

Your altitude determines your attitude and sometimes smiling wins more friends than frowning and whatever the mind can conceive and believe it can achieve and sometimes too our bad or good situations can be changed if we first changed ourselves, and to change ourselves effectively we first had to change our perceptions. But sometimes the greater the change the more difficult our challenges become. sometimes listening rather than talking much is very important because listening involves patience, openness and the desire to understand.

sometimes I derive a great sense of worth within myself, but I also recognize the need for love, forgiving and for receiving love from others and as an interdependent person I have the opportunity to share myself deeply, meaningfully with others. But someone may ask "But how do you love when you don't love". Love is something you do, the sacrifices you make, the giving of self like a mother bringing a new born into the world. If one wants to study love he/she should study those who sacrifice for others even for people who offend or do not love in return.

But the most important thing to notice is, the world is full of hate today and that makes it important for me to distance myself from people who lie to me, who disrespect me and who put me down, so do you have to. sometimes I always say to myself I might not be somebody's first choice but I am great choice, I may not be rich but I am valuable, I don't pretend to be who I am not because I am good at being me, I might not be proud of some of the things I have done in the past but I am proud of who I am today.

People may have spoken negative things about you/me, but the good news is people don't determine your future God does. sometimes I always smile when nature says that no one notice your tears, no one notice your sadness, no one notice your pain but they all notice your mistakes but I always say when you judge me without knowing me you do no not define me, you define yourself. because nothing is permanent in this world not even our birth scars.