CAN WE GET BACK TO LOVING

Whats the real difference between a strong minded woman and a strong minded man basically there is no differences between the two souls if they are journeying and traveling, as they walk into the same dimensions of life for they both are working towards a common ground of love honor and respect as one woman and one man as in man and woman building a strong foundation of steel and stones.                                                                                                                        
                                                                                                                                        
But yet when we stop look and listen to the mere conversations of nowadays we hear a different story being told by both of them but yet some of the hatred and misunderstandings, comes from being abuse way to long mentally and emotionally and physically and being taking for granted thinking that is love, but that is far from the truth of honesty and trust for where is the understanding or the commitment with consistency or honor or respect.      
                                                                                                                                    
                                                                                                                                  For nowadays we walk around with our guards up not really trusting knowone as far as we can see them, but really is that any kind of way to live as men's and women's searching and seeking this thing we call love not of us chasing the skin of our flesh, but of our intelligences with a mind to think and not be blinded by lies of distraction of what ain't really love which shakes you down to your core of your soul.