Its Not Genes, Its Masturbation Focused On Self That Leads to Homosexuality

This stuff is elementary, understandable but surprisingly UNKNOWN.
It's amazing to me that people say things like, "Oh it must be genetic".
No, homosexuality is the natural outcome of focusing on yourself, SELF, while masturbating.
It's "easy as pi" to understand.  
How can you NOT become obsessed with      yourself if you focus on yourself?  
What gives you pleasure -- that's what you tend to love.  
If your sex organ give you pleasure -- you are going to do what?  
Love it. And if you love it, you want to mouth it.  
But you can't reach it. So you turn to a copy of it.  
Voila, you become a homosexual.  
It's a logical progression -- that's all I'm trying to say.  
While I'm not defending it, I'm not condemning it right now.  
Except to say, how can militant self love, narcissism be acceptable ??