Both

Walking through my memory
Watching my own pain
If I could have it any other way
I would already have it changed
I was asked to speak to the 16 year old me
But I don't think she understands
How much I have changed
To not be able to help who I was then
Her and I are not alike
I don't think we ever were
She is who I once was
And I am who she'll be
She is one I used to love
I am one she doesn't want to see
All we have between each other
Are fingers pointing the blame
We're both wrong
We're both right
We're both one and the same