Let's Talk About It

We don't talk a lot about sex
There's a lot on fucking
but not much on sex
This isn't some 'making love' shtick

Granted the activity is a private matter
However how many times have you been asked 'did you do it?'
However nobody talks about how there's a bit of a personality switch within the act
Nobody tells you how to it's different from person to person

Nobody tells you that you'll meet more submissive people or dominant people
It's really the luck of the draw for most of us
However knowing so much more can change the game

We all know intercourse
We all know how to fuck
But do we know what sex is

I'm still learning myself, I'm no expert
As much as you think you know
You keep finding out new things
You learn more about what you like

It's crazg really how with almost everything we do as humans
We develop game plans
Things may not go as planned
But the mentality remains
To know your teammates really well
Always improves your game
Yet in our own spaces
Even after years we use trial and error

The topic will always be discreet I guess
However in our own spaces should it be?
It's crazy how many people aren't even comfortable communicating with their own partners be it casual or regular
Keeping the analogy going

Isn't that your teammate?

Worse of all, the fear of being vulnerable
Yes the world doesn't need to know how nasty you can be
However a lot of people hide this from their own teammates
In a way we all have to get over ourselves

Think about it, a lot of older people
Enjoy the activity not just from experience
They do so because they start to care less
Imagine having that while still in your prime?

Youth is wasted on the young they say

I really don't have a solution
I'm just speaking my mind

I wish we could be more comfortable with each other but that takes work
I'm not even sure people want to put in the work