Vindictiveness Within Vandettas

Easy said than done to rise above such hateful thoughts when each given situation is different to the last

No one is sans uncontrolled thoughts, myself included. It is the action we take which define us.

To point out another's misdeeds can be admirable, going to war, not so much.

I understand and respect your view, Rose.
Thank you for weighing in.

Teri

My weight of change is but a small price in commenting xD

Amen! Lately it's been hard to control anger and seep disappointment. Angry and hatred will always be self-destructive. Thank you for the think. Brava!

"Angry and hatred will always be self-destructive."

Wise words indeed, my friend. It affects oneself more so than the one it is directed toward.

Thanks for the read and comment, Bob

Indeed.

Ferocity of reaction, though totally non-violent may be the intent, sometimes conveys the opposite!

Patience, never an easy feat! I say the Mount Everest of human traits!

Wise, is my friend
And a Friend indeed is the One who always reminds her/his friends of wisdom.

Ink.
Profound.

When one sets out to harass, persecute, or intimidate another for whatever reason,
wise observers are given a peek into the harasser's character, not a pretty sight.

My friend's kindred thoughts a delight to behold.

Absolutely true!

The poetess's comment speaks well of her integrity.

Thank you, SS, always nice to see your pen here.

so much wisdom in you beautiful Teri
well said..

love Raven

The credit must go to those I was fortunate enough to learn from.

Thank you, Raven, much pleasure derives from your visits.

Teri

Thank you, Hans, though I only call it as I see it, it's reassuring others
feel likewise. Perhaps if we all speak out, we can reduce the amount of bullying that is prevalent in society today.

Teri

I must agree

Your "must" offers hope.

Thank you, JT, for your visit, comment, and perspective.

AT

True words indeed.

Thank you, Apple

A pleasure to see you upon my page.

AT

I very much agree to a certain point... I let go of hate a long time ago, managed to find some type of forgiveness (I think lol) within and it was to be what set me free.
But, I do think it’s sometimes necessary to make a stance when a situation calls for nothing less.
Wise words dearest Teri.

I totally agree with taking a stance. I believe I was not clear in my meaning behind writing this piece, and have modified the title to better reflect it. (see Author's Note)

Thank you Sophie, for the insight your comment provided.

Teri

Anyone who navigates this life without being wronged by someone has indeed led a charmed life. It is how one reacts in these times that reveals the true person under the surface. I commend anyone for standing up for themselves and confronting unjust acts or accusations. However, engaging in a vendetta of hatred and spite in the course of vindication only shows one's own ugliness.

Thank you as always, Dani.  

It has always amazed me, how we can be our own worst enemy when given the opportunity.

Thank you my friend.