When A Man Settles Down

How is it that some men have to beg for head?
Pimps got hoes doing it AND giving up the bread
The psychology of the game, I don't understand
Why so much bullshit when trying to be a good man?

I'm undoubtedly starting to believe and really see
Need to seclude myself and reemerge a different D
Somethings that have been ingrained in my brain
May need to be scrubbed out like a difficult stain

There are things that you become accustomed to
That women you were with would regularly do for you
All of a sudden when you allow yourself to commit
Sometimes certain women decide to quit that shit

Got me thinking, damn, was this always your plan
Did you just do that to get me to be your man?
Then you decided  "well, I got him now"
Is this always the outcome when a man settles down?