Explaining absence

Not that I don't want to go.
Not that.
This is our social obligation that we do
respect invitations.

Let the invitation come
either from your or my
relatives or friends
Let this be an invitation for
a marriage ceremony or betrothal
we need respect every invitation jointly
unless
I don't care how do you explain
my absence
or you don't care how do I
explain yours.

I have an old complaint
and now I myself is old.
I have explained it so many times
and now I want you go alone
and do it yourself.