PLEASE DONT DAMAGE THAT MAN FOR OTHERS

Please do not damage the credibility of a good man that works hard to take care of his responsibilities (his family and his CHILDREN);
Please stop making allegations that you're sleeping with him or that he's sleeping with other WOMEN.        
         
Google a map, locate your life & stop concerning yourself with this...and every other man: unless and until you can get yourself TOGETHER;        
Oh he's this, oh he's that---Oh he did this, oh he did that...like for real? Bye girl...you should've known BETTER.        
         
Now either he was a jackass when you first met him...which only makes me question your INTELLIGENCE;        
Or you turned him into a jackass... which makes you responsible---yet still IRRELEVANT.        
         
So maybe he was a cheater, maybe he was cheap, maybe a lot of the stuff he did during the relationship wasn't cool...and so? What we really talking BOUT?        
Girl do yourself a favor and let the next girl figure that mess out---plus people can change---how bout giving the man the benefit of the DOUBT?        
         
All I'm trying to say is ladies, stop complaining about an Ex; just because he wasn't a good boyfriend or husband to you...doesn't mean he won't be to the next (and that doesn't make her better than you) it just means she's more accepting of his ways...or it could mean he changed those ways...because she inspired him TOO;    
If he does change...great for him...but even if he doesn't...it's no-longer your business nor your problem BOO-BOO.        
         
Let's put our big girl panties on and chop it up as a lesson LEARNED;       
No need to be mad...you're actually the lucky one... usually when you find, clean-up and love a stray dog...there's no receipt...no RETURN.        
         
Don't break up his family, stain his reputation, ruin his life and then say you didnt mean to...that man was not your father or savior; he was just a lover: there to make and give love, hug and kiss you...and sometimes lend a shoulder as TISSUE;        
If time has passed and you find that you are still heartbroken and hurting years after a break up...its likely due to some unresolved childhood trauma...so for your own sake...please try and deal with your daddy ISSUES.