I should have said:

“Take your time,
think it through carefully
then do & say what you most need
I trust you
I care about you
I know you’ll find a way through…
Always know that
Whenever, however, wherever
You may need me
I’m here for you
My heart is with you
As you go through this
I’ll always care
& want what is best for you”

I’m sorry
for being selfish
When you needed
Understanding