I have been a member of DUP for eleven years and write for pleasure. It is inspired by the life I shared with my wife, soul mate, best friend and lover for over thirty years. God, in all his wisdom, came in January of 2021 and visited cancer upon my special wife. I believe the best sex is shared between those who care and cherish each other, with sex being the culmination of that caring. I have not, and will not, give up on having that again in my life.