I get a feel for you as we talk over time and you lend me insights into your life.
I show interest in the details you provide. I do not remember everything, but many things you have said. I keep you in mind.
Often my questions are of trivial things. I take an interest in your day, in your well being.
I hold back little about myself.
I try to patient with you, accepting what you offer me.
I tell you something amusing or I show you my heart.
Or it's both of these.