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Love it....bang on too.

hello dearest Benny thank you for reading and commenting ❤️

Your spot on with this.

hello beautiful Fia I wish it weren't true but I swear everytime I let my guard down a woman is there to inflict pain...why we are so cruel to each other I don't know... thank you lady for understanding this ❤️

Just dealt with that recently. Not cool,

I'm sorry to hear that lovely Fia because I know how bad it hurts...hugs 💕

Brilliantly written, Crimsin. Into the list it belongs. Spitting facts here. Appreciate you.

DL  

hello dearest Damian thank you for reading the list add it's a painful phenomon and all too real I deeply appreciate your thoughts 💕

True words Crimsin, yes jealousy I'm afraid, I don't know why people can't leave the hell alone or be happy for someone, anyways Dear have a Blessed Day ❤️

hello dearest Pete it's very sad and hurtful and to a lot of people a person's happiness is just a game some women will do this just to hurt another woman and for no other reason ending a relationship thank you for reading and for a thoughtful comment 💕

I appreciate your thoughts on this subject matter as it is true as some people's are just creatures of habits 🤨🪬 SHAMAN 🪬

hello dearest Stoney I wish so badly it wasn't true but it is a lot of times I've had women befriend me for no other reason than to distract me and cause a rift in my relationship and I feel so dumb I've fallen for it more than once thank you for sharing your thoughts 💕

I truly appreciate your thoughts on this subject matter, for it's true as well as it's sad how some people's who doesn't know you yet act like they do 🤔 I guess some folks haven't grown up yet, with the mind games for sure sometimes, we just have to put them in there place 😠     🐺 WOLF BAY 🐺

Partners and friends of mine over time have said they generally dont like other women because they're two faced or backstabbers.
They were also the kind of people that would utterly destroy them for that behaviour, which is cool.

hello dearest Ryan I'm very soft hearted and no good at revenge I have always kept a tight reign on my anger I've always felt if I let it out it would be all bad... so I let karma have it's say right now I'm just waiting out a storm but it hurts... thank you for reading and sharing with me I wish I could settle it myself but I can't 💕

Just tell them to fuck off

thank you Ryan 💕

Sorry for being flippant but people like need to be told.
I do understand that it might not be in you to do so, don't feel bad for being kind.

Ryan I'm afraid if I confronted this woman which I actually have and she has not backed off I would be vicious which I have been already it only encourages her...❤️

Whats her problem? Does she feel justified in her actions or just a nasty arsehole?

she sees my life and she wants it.

Is this directly about your life or is it a, you have the eye of someone shes interested in situation.    
If the former making her look foolish is a good way to get someone flustered and likely act impulsively which is a good way to reveal her true character if friends are involved theyll end up being too embarrassed to support her behaviour or just simply point out to any "fans" if its that easy for her to be a dick theyll likely end up the focus sooner or later. If her friends aren't involved act indifferent/distant like shes irrelevant. If ignoring her is your favoured option then just do that shes wasting the energy.    
If you cant avoid her and shes the physical type don't be in a situation where she can harm you try having someone there. Killing her with kidness is another option, or flip it onto her by asking her why she feels she needs to act in such a manner as an adult. I used the killing with kindness option it took a while. Then they returned to being an ass so i eventually got too annoyed and told them what i thought of them.  
Really though shes the pathetic one  
I mean this isn't high school people should be capable of showing a little decorum.  
If its a guy thing make him not like her (he shouldn't anyway if shes being that way).

hi dearest Ryan I have told her directly to back off she's poor and has her sights on my man as an option out... I think she has even convinced herself she really likes him... I have killed her with kindness and that's no good either I can't stand her... I would even say I hate her....I live on a ranch with ten acres she was a tenant who is now evicted I believe she thinks if she fucks my husband that will go away...

Ok so this more of a desperation thing. I think it might be better to confront her with your husband and make her understand that whats shes doing is unacceptable and isnt be a better option especially if trying to ruin a marriage is on the table. If shes super annoying but not super unhinged and is able to see reason you may have to dig your a heels in (both together) and apeal to her sense of reason. Desperate people do desperate things and all that. If he hasn't already hes going to need to make it clear that what she wants is not an option and that he has no interest in her. If it gets too bad then it may come down to mental health professionals but considering you live the US its probably not an option to involve those kinds of people (unless theres free services of some kind but i mean considering you gotta pay for health care there thats hardly going to help her financially). does she have family estranged or otherwise she can potentially (reconcile and) stay with? She sounds like she needs help and shes not helping herself doing all that. I'm guessing theres limited actually helpful options otherwise. Where does she go if shes been evicted, squatting? Or on the street? If shes was just being a arsehole thats a fight fire with fire thing but this is a complicated one, because her options seem limited. I think needs help. Not saying its on you but she needs look into a healthier option.

I'm going to just let it go she's already squatting here and doesn't care she's been legally evicted she had more than six months to move I'm done...

Thats fair.
Hopefully it works out somehow.