How would one know if they are being seduced?

How does one know if they are being seduced?

In a society where bold assumptions are passed as compliments

If one should graze a hand subtly, not in dominance but to show interest. Is that seduction?

When a glance of innocence lingers longer than necessary, is that seduction?

What would seduction be today?

There are no longer handwritten notes shared between the sender and the receiver, to covet and be hidden in intimate things.

Flowers can be sent but can be misconstrued to mean a number of things.

How would I know if seduction is underfoot?

When would it be appropriate to signal that it is time to speak alone?

When a word is said strategically chaste to misdirect the idle passerby but is meant something completely opposite

To give without expectation
To receive with honor

Casanova has long left the living, and his lessons have dissipated into the wind.

I guess I shall never know if I am being seduced or if I am another number in the long line of numbers with no value.