I think it depends on how much you will tolerate. They do take work - but it shouldn't be that much work:) This is my personal percentage relationship rate. hahahah 70 to 80 % happy 10 to 20 % angry
There now I solved all of the relationship problems in the entire universe. hahahah
Messy relationships have good sex in the beginning and then morph into depraved violence, usually in front of friends who'd rather be anywhere but there..plead the 5th ...
Oh no, it's definitely not just you Faith. If it's not messy you aren't doing it right I guess. lol That's what I tell myself anyway as I keep trying to straighten things up in the aftermath. :p
Mrs. Reynolds, one of my high school English teachers,told the class one day that writers always had messy personal lives, sometimes fueled by alcohol and/or drug abuse, poor choices in members of the opposite sex or any number of reasons. I never forgot that.