"your happiness"

  
 
   
   "you shouldn't "depend" on someone else to make you "happy".... I feel is one of the biggest lies ever told.... the people who say that simply say it because they want to "protect their energy" and or they've been through a lot....  
   
   
      
 the "right" person can make someone genuinely smile with little to no effort.... their presence; their good intentions-their good vibes....  
   
   
their capacity to look pass your troubled mind....and spend quality time....if you're alone all of the time-unless one's just completely self centered-it aggitates the human mind....  
   
   
"nothing comes easy" that's the way this shit life's designed.... but if you're "blessed" with a healthy relationship with someone despite the odds; it makes life a little more worth living....  
   
   
we're not meant to stay isolated.... but a lot of the times there's unfortunately reasons.... people want to feel loved....no matter what they tell me.... people want to feel appreciated-end of story  
   
   
but of course "stability" is the thin and bottom line....that for one reason or another(understandably so)is an ultimate struggle...."stability"....