does absents make things better

 
the one that you fell in love
there has been days more than others
when you have felt more and some less
it hurt your  heart those days that were less
and wish it could have been happily more
it's said absents make the love grow stronger
does a plant grow in the absents of water
so how can love grow stronger without the other
when you need that strength
is when things are not way they should be  
so ask yourself why people pack up and leave
then thinking things will get better magically
separation doesn't fix anything
so when does absent make hearts grow stronger
through maturity and your kid leave
that when your love will grow even more close
so no empty nest syndrome in this house    
we had to even throw one out