Way of being

"I hope that you can hear.."
though I fear
you're no longer near,
I can feel you here
and you are no one
and you are everything
nameless
formless
shameless and gorgeous
the effect you've had on me
is enormously underestimated
for too long
it remained uninvestigated
but now it's understood
it changed me for good
though some say
that's not the way one should
go about real change
but who are they to decide what's right
or what's best
it's only their best guess
assuming that's best for the rest
there's never a sure solution
or a proper path one must crawl down.
One should probably
 produce their own
way of being
which may only apply to
 that one single soul
who may have more self control
than the average entity..