You canít build a solid foundation upon a pack of lies, and then, expect it to nourish & nurture you, boundlessly.
Wrong, cannot be undone, and thatís something we all know, and oft take for granted in the moment.
Immature love says I need you, but what the fuck for, when mature love wants you. The latter doesnít inspire codependency like the other.
Only the weak seek to control another through codependency, unaware that control is just an illusion.
You may think you have control but you donít, particularly if you have no control over your self, and you attempt to harness fear into another to obtain the balance of control.
Sure, it can be forgiven but resentment is what emerges, and either way, itís a futile attempt to prolong the inevitable.
Life, is way too short to invest your time and energy into ramblers & gamblers that arenít capable of demonstrating integrity.
Some people, are terrified of being alone, whilst others, are content within their own skin.
If someone affords you the window of transparency into the deepest parts of themselves, and you take that for granted, thatís your prerogative.
People come and go, itís just the way it is.