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How to make being in love and staying in love easy

Building loving, caring, nurturing, sexy, freaky relationships that last as long as all parties agree to be together takes practice, patience and a willingness to do the things necessary to make it happen. People change, feeling change, sexual wants and habits change and physical attraction change, but it should not be for the worse when you have the power to make those changes for the better in order to continue being in the kind of relationships you want without sacrificing your happiness, wants and desires.
 
Being in love should be a every second, minute, hour and every day kind of amazing feeling. It should be very easy to fall in love and unbearably hard to fall out of love. Here are a few tips on how to never lose the love groove that's in your hearts.
 
Make your partner/partners top priority, stay focus on their happiness in all aspect of their lives. Have meaningful conversations (jobs, children, family, friends, education, health, goals, achievements, disappointments, hurts, happy times and sad times) as well as non meaningful conversations (talk about silly stuff and laugh a lot together) each day.

Never be afraid or feel ashamed to say what you're thinking and how you are feeling about anything.
 
Show your loves/lovers plenty of affection through physical bonding such as holding hands, caressing, kissing, touching and light BDSM if your into that sought of thing. Also Intellectual bonding such a reading together and to each other, write love letters, poems, short stories about your togetherness, make short films and watch them together. Attend lectures on whatever interests you and show your partners crazy support in their life ventures.
 
Never stay silent about whatever troubling thoughts you have. Finish discussing arguments and come to a agreeable conclusion. Why put off for tomorrow what you can finish today. Never go to bed angry at your partners. Be ethically sound, brutally honest and forthright in your dealing with your partners. Integrity breeds fidelity and this will help you to make good choices that will benefit you and your partners happiness in whatever type of relationships you are in or want to have together.
 
Spend plenty of time doing activities together, like traveling, going to the gym, the theater, movies, the park, bicycling, visit museums, go dancing and keep the sex life healthy, kinky, filled with variety, interesting and exciting. Your love should always be filled with sparks to set your world ablaze with loveliness.
 
Respect each others personal space. Everyone needs time to themselves and time to spend with friends. Set aside some time where you can grow in your own self to help you to grow in your relationships. Fair play is also very important; whatever wants and kinky desires you crave for yourselves you should also want for your partner/partners. This rule helps to keep relationships balanced creating harmony instead of being tumultuous and one sided.
Written by thewatcher33
Published | Edited 16th Feb 2017
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